LN1987 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 So I have my ex's password, I had him blocked but unblocked him last week as we had a large argument over an important issue (not going to go into detail here) and I wanted to send him a message. I found out today that he blocked me, but he also sent me a text asking if I had "calmed down?". Why block me, tell me last week he wanted nothing to do with me, and then send me a text? I wish it didn't get to me but honestly it has just ruined my study for the last 2 hours. Link to comment
doiiiieeezie Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Ignore facebook. Ignore the texts... get back to studying. If you two want to talk, pick up the phone. Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 Why would he block me though... My profile is private, so is his, so why bother blocking me? I want to ignore it, but it screws with my head... Why text, but have me blocked... It does not make much sense to me. Link to comment
SicFounder Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Probably just over-reacting. Sometimes with my ex we'd get in a huge fight and I'd block her on facebook, but then we'd make up and I'd unblock her. Seeing as you're ex's. Just ignore it. You have much more important things in your life. Link to comment
Kishiko Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I think you should just slap him. Link to comment
magnoliatree Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I'd suggest deleting/throwing away his password. You really have no right to access his acct anymore and besides, it will drive you insane if you do. Take the high road. Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 I know. I don't want his pw. I guess I am just a bit confused. WHy block me, tell me he hates me, wants nothing to do with me... But txt me? It seems petty you know. Link to comment
thusspokemara Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 WHy block me, tell me he hates me, wants nothing to do with me... But txt me? It seems petty you know. You answered your own question. Adult humans often act like toddlers; you can only control your response (or lack thereof). Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 how can he block you when you already had him blocked? you have to go to someones profile to block them, and if you already have them blocked...they cant access your profile. Link to comment
dramallama Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I know. I don't want his pw. I guess I am just a bit confused. WHy block me, tell me he hates me, wants nothing to do with me... But txt me? It seems petty you know. Because he wants control over you. HE wants to be with one to call the shots. It's not healthy for you to be in contact with him. I'm sure that you know his address. Send him a letter that is ONLY about this important issue. Perhaps if you say what it is, then we can let you know how to handle it. Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 6, 2011 Author Share Posted July 6, 2011 Well he has changed his password and email so he must have known I was logging in.... How though? Link to comment
dramallama Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 Doesn't matter. You're focusing on the wrong things. Stop trying to get into his head. Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 6, 2011 Author Share Posted July 6, 2011 I know, I am just embarrassed now. I don't even know how he could have known I was logging in...? Now I feel crazy because he would know it was me, even though I have no idea how.... People don't just change there passwords and emails for no reason do they? Link to comment
dramallama Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 Doesn't matter. Learn from your mistake and respect other people's privacy from now on. But stop worrying what he thinks. It's probably better that he wised up that it was you, because I don't think you would have stopped checking if he didn't. Link to comment
AvonRepus Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 It's easy to know that someone is logging into your profile.There's a history log now,you can see the location,ip,everything if needed.Facebook got wiser.Too bad .lol. Link to comment
apple89 Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 i don't know i change my password on my Facebook and emails 3 times a year or so for security reasons.. especially if i know my ex had my password, not because i know they logged in but just to be secure Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 I deactivated my account and have never been happier. Facebook can really slow down your healing. Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 6, 2011 Author Share Posted July 6, 2011 It's easy to know that someone is logging into your profile.There's a history log now,you can see the location,ip,everything if needed.Facebook got wiser.Too bad .lol. Where do you find this? Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 6, 2011 Author Share Posted July 6, 2011 Haha I just found it, how embarrassing... Facebook did get wise, to my detriment and total embarrassment... Link to comment
AvonRepus Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 You can control pretty much everything,including to send you a text if you log in from a new location.You can store your house ip,work,cell.Anything else is considered compromising.And yes,it got wiser. It used to very easy to steal someone's password.Ive done it. Shame.:splat: Link to comment
hello678 Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 I know, I am just embarrassed now. I don't even know how he could have known I was logging in...? Now I feel crazy because he would know it was me, even though I have no idea how.... People don't just change there passwords and emails for no reason do they? He probably knew that you knew it and was keeping you out. He may not have known that you actually were logging in, just that you had the ability. You do realise everytime you talk to him, or log into his sites it makes it 10x worse for you right? Link to comment
hello678 Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 It's easy to know that someone is logging into your profile.There's a history log now,you can see the location,ip,everything if needed.Facebook got wiser.Too bad .lol. To be fair he probably knew she'd be doing it anyway so he should have changed the password. Link to comment
LN1987 Posted July 6, 2011 Author Share Posted July 6, 2011 He didnt know I had it, I got it off his computer when he left me alone in his house the other week... There is no way he wouldve realised I knew it as he changed it when we broke up.... Link to comment
dramallama Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 This really isn't something you need to sit around analysing. Link to comment
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