Confused about my ex

[AR15101991]

Well my ex broke up with me about 1 1/2 months ago.

Her reasoning was that she wanted to be young and single. I still have feelings for her but am now mega confused.

Recently I bumped into her whilst I was walking to town. We seemed ok and talked about life and laughed a fair bit.

later that night we spoke again through a social networking website and she was apologetic and saying that i am being too nice because she thought i would hate her for breaking up with me.

Then a day later i sent a text asking a general question and i received no answer. I ask later that night on a social networking site again and she instantly went

offline with a slight delay.

 

Basically i am really confused bout the signs and what is going on.

 

Is she confused with what she wants?

Is she scared?

 

Thanks in advance for any advice or replies

[Bella4]

Maybe she just wants to be civil with you, and doesn't want to string you along.. maybe she thought her talking to you gave you the wrong impression because you started to text her? I dont know, people are weird. Why don't you ask her?.. Or, no contact - that'll drive her nuts, and she'll come contacting you..girls do that.

[Ms Darcy]

It doesn't seem like it means much to me. I wouldn't take that as a positive. If she wants to be young and single, let her. There are plenty of girls who would like to be with you.

[AR15101991]

Maybe she just wants to be civil with you, and doesn't want to string you along.. maybe she thought her talking to you gave you the wrong impression because you started to text her? I dont know, people are weird. Why don't you ask her?.. Or, no contact - that'll drive her nuts, and she'll come contacting you..girls do that.

 

Cheers for the advice I still do not know what to do.

I have been trying to get her off my mind by running and cycling but at the end of the day I still love her.

I havent been in this position before and am struggling to come to terms with it as well I dont want to imagine her with another lad.

I just want her back but my efforts are getting less and less enthusiastic.

I need her in my life two and a half years is too long just to give up.

 

Thank you