KJ2008 Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 Ok, my best friend (21) basically got into his first real relationship about 7 or 9 months ago with a girl that just recently turned 21. They've been together less than a year and she is starting to push him to purpose to her. I KNOW this is a red flag...but I'm having a really hard time trying to break it to him. I've kind of hinted that it is, but I feel like I just can't work up the courage to tell him..Are my observations valid? He has told her that he's not ready and she has told him "I just want the committment".. Thoughts, comments? Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 My suggestion is to stay out of it. He's a grown man and can make his own dicision. You can express your concerns if he asks for your feedback but other than that I would keep my comments to myself. Link to comment
Snny Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 Nothing you can do here. He needs to work it out with his girlfriend on his own grounds. Keep out. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 Best advice? If it all comes crashing down, let it. Yes it does seem harsh but you cannot interfere. If you want to help your friend, be there for him if and when it does happen. Link to comment
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