strawberryjell Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 I had blocked both of them (ex and my former friend) on FB. She texts me recently saying "You blocked me on Facebook?" I didn't respond....of course I did, it's essential to my healing.... Years ago I had some problems, and I used to cut....haven't done it for a long time, because I grew up, and I know I determine my own happiness. She used to be the one I turned to when my ex and I had problems; she used to say she was worried about me and didn't want me to hurt myself, but I was always more worried about her (her masochism was much worse than mine; she's been in the hospital several times because of it), and we used to be pretty good friends, although I realized she wasn't when she lied to me saying my ex and her were just friends and she didn't admit to feeling more for him than just friends when I asked-real friends can talk about that....Anyways, I got a text from her last night saying, "Hey just wanted to say I hope you're not back into the pill/cutting scene again. If you are talk to someone about it." Just venting, but why would she text me like that when she said that she would leave me alone? I just want her to leave me alone! And if I were hurting myself (and I most definitely am not), I think that text is like throwing someone a lifesaver floaty thing and then pulling it back before they have a chance to grab on!
magnoliatree Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Sounds like she is baiting you and trying to get a reaction from you. Some people do that when you ignore them. Just continue ignoring her and maybe delete her texts without reading them.
ChellyV Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 first of all i truly hope you are not back in to this: "Hey just wanted to say I hope you're not back into the pill/cutting scene again. If you are talk to someone about it." second, IGNORE those texts. if she truly cared about you as a friend, she wouldn't be with your ex now. i hope you are on the road to healing.
strawberryjell Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 I am far from doing that to myself now; I've grown a lot in the past 3 years. And I will continue ignoring her, because I have better friends in my life, and I don't want to keep someone around who doesn't truly care about me. I guess I can agree she is doing it for a reaction, which I will not give her. Thanks!
browneyedgirl36 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Oh wow. She's a real piece of work! Feigning concern after taking up with your ex? Acting surprised that you deleted her from Facebook? Is she serious??? How condescending of her, and how...icky. It sounds like you're doing great. Keep up the good work, and ignore, ignore IGNORE any and all messages from her OR from your ex.
LostOne01 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Just ignore her. Get a new phone number if you must. She's full of it.
strawberryjell Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 Thanks everyone! I've decided that if she texts me again, I'm blocking her number. Thank goodness I don't have to worry about the ex contacting me! The only times I'm having trouble with is in the morning...I actually feel good going to bed, because I look forward to seeing my friends!
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