Mario3000 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 My ex girlfriend is going around telling lies making it seem like i broke up with her when she is the one who broke with me? Why is she doing this and what can i do to stop it? Link to comment
chitown9 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Get a custom made T-shirt that has these words in big letters: SHE BROKE UP WITH ME! Link to comment
DN Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 All you can do is tell the truth to anyone who asks. Link to comment
hunniebunn Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 There is nothing you can do about what she says, but like DN said all you can do is tell your story to anybody who asks. She is probably doing this to get sympathy from other people so that you look like the bad person. Just don't let it get to you! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Stop reacting, she'll soon find another hobby. Link to comment
italiannmf24 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Ignore her pleas for attention (AKA spreading lies about you) and lead your life normally. Link to comment
Mario3000 Posted July 3, 2011 Author Share Posted July 3, 2011 Ignore her pleas for attention (AKA spreading lies about you) and lead your life normally. i agree i should just let her run around with her lies while i walk away with the truth. karma will catch up with her Link to comment
Pinnacle Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Ignore her pleas for attention (AKA spreading lies about you) and lead your life normally. It's about attention yes, but it is a little more specific than that. Actually, what she wants is her friends and family to think that SHE is the "victim" of the break up and not YOU. So that people would feel bad for her and turn them all against you. Why? Who the hell knows. Either way, you kind of dodged a bullet here in the long run. Link to comment
tresqua Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 My ex girlfriend is going around telling lies making it seem like i broke up with her when she is the one who broke with me? Why is she doing this and what can i do to stop it? Better question. Why do you CARE? Link to comment
Mario3000 Posted July 3, 2011 Author Share Posted July 3, 2011 Better question. Why do you CARE? because rumors can spread and cause trouble Link to comment
tresqua Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 because rumors can spread and cause trouble What sort of trouble could be caused by rumors that you broke up with her rather than the other way around? IF anything it makes you look better to other prospective dates. If anyone asks you what happened and who broke up with who, just say "The relationship ran it's course, we had problems, it's over, I don't care to discuss it" and then move on to something else. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Get a custom made T-shirt that has these words in big letters: SHE BROKE UP WITH ME! LOL, sign me up I'll take a couple! Link to comment
DN Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 It can cause trouble if she is going round telling people he broke up with her heartlessly, or because he was cheating or some other story that puts him in a bad light. For some reason, people always think dumpers are bad people unless there was some sort of known abuse. Link to comment
sada88 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 /shrugs My ex is going around spreading lies about me too since everyone knew he cheated on me. Trust me, it makes him look like more of an a*s than he originally looked like before (which is pretty hard since he was a known d*uchebag) because they know me and know I was a very good girlfriend and did none of the things he accused me of especially since they know with the way he treated me...yea, most people would crack. So, I agree with the other posters if the people who are close to you know your real side, they are going to see her in a negative light from the lies she is spreading...so you can get your consolation from that. Link to comment
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