Another blown opportunity

[i miss her 2]

I haven't really dated in a while. I feel socially inept to be honest. I was in a 4 year relationship that ended badly two years ago. People are constantly surprised that im single because they think im a great looking, fun person. I feel lost though on dating or finding someone. Im shy sometimes.

 

I know I have opportunities left and right but I always blow them or dont take advantage!

 

Like last night. I decided to go to a club with a friend from work. I kinda danced a bit but it was a joke for the most part. I spotted this very cute girl dancing with her friends. I swear she didnt see checking her out. All of a sudden she turns around, grabs my arm and pulls me over to where they were and dances with me. Perfect opportunity but after I was done dancing with her, I just walked away with nothing much to say. I feel dead inside sometimes. There I was , thinking this girl was so attractive, wondering what to do or say to approach her , and she pulls me in.

 

Why do I just walk away from that?!

[Jake]

Reading about your experience I have to say I find it rather depressing. Why shoot yourself in the foot like that?

[i miss her 2]

What do you mean?