My dog, my friend

[BrocPizza]

I know this is nothing compared to what other people are going through, but my dog passed away in February of this year and I don't think I have gotten over it. He was our family pet for ten years and he died of cancer, unexpectedly. I just wasn't ready for it, as he was my companion and my friend. I used to take him for walks everyday and for that period of time during the day, I was at peace. It didn't matter what was going on in my life, at that time I felt calm, happy and grateful.

 

I realized today that I am feeling very lonely and I'm not sure if that is the entire reason but I think it is part of it. I don't really have friends in the city anymore, they have all moved away since University ended. My parents have since gotten a new dog, but to me it just isn't the same. I miss our walks. I have an amazing family and I am newly married, so I am very lucky and grateful. I know that I am blessed, but I feel very alone today.

[Hollyj]

I'm sorry, they are very special and such an important part of our lives. Each one that I have lost, has taken a little piece of me with them.

Have you considered getting a new puppy of your own?

[BrocPizza]

Thank you Holly, I wonder if that would help. I don't think pets are allowed in the house that we rent. I think I might ask if he will consider allowing us to get a small dog.

[Hollyj]

It won't be a replacement for your other dog but, it will bring much new joy to your life.

 

Dog Fanatic

[AmandaB]

I agree, it will be by no means a replacement but you will be meeting a whole other doggy with a brand new personality and new exciting experiences. You will also be saving a life!

[hers]

Don't discount what you're going through bc its not a human. Our pets can become like family and losing them hits us just as hard. I lost my dog almost 2 years ago to cancer. Although I felt like I had time to prepare for it, I still couldn't prepare enough for how hard it was and would be for quite a while. I loved her so much. She was my life.

 

Others suggested to get another dog, not as a replacement but as another companion. I didn't get another dog till a year after my dog died, and even then, I knew I wasn't ready. I was still to raw and grieving my othear dog and I fund it difficult to love the new dog. I do now, but it was tough and took time.

 

Don't rush into getting a new one till you're ready. Let yourself grieve and go through the grieving process. Don't feel bad for grieving over the loss of your dog

[babygirl3253]

You dog was just another family member. He was with you since he was a puppy and he grew old with you. Although he is gone, he is still with you in spirit. He is no longer in pain. You should think of the happy times that you had with him. Just remember taking him on walks. Remember being with him and remember the loyalty he showed you.

 

He is not suffering anymore..... would you rather him be in peace at rest or still alive and suffering? He is in a better place now. He lived a happy life with you I am sure. Don't worry.... he may be gone physically but he will never be gone- he will always live in your memory.