Did she think I wasn't interested?

[llama]

Hey everyone. Last weekend this girl my friend recently met invited her 2 girlfriends to go out with us on his boat. Her one girlfriend and I talked a lot. She was obviously asking probing questions i.e ,what music I liked, movies, what I did etc. I reciprocated and continued the conversation. There was alcohol and lots of it. Her bikini top was off as we were talking at one point and she laughed it off. Awesome. We did some flirting and she mentioned that she was going to be at her friends house over the July 4th weekend and Sunday they're having a BBQ. She said I should come. I told her it sounded fun and I'll stop by.

 

As the night came we were all tired and zombie like. As she left, we gave each other a kiss on the cheek goodbye, but I forgot to get her phone number. I told her I would see her around. Dumb mistake on my part for blowing the number. But now my buddy tells me he got word that this girl is bringing some guy to the BBQ. It's not her BF, because she's single. I don't know if she's dating this guy, or he's a random friend or what. I just thought it was peculiar.

 

Did she feel rejected? Is she trying to see if I'll get jealous? Or is she trying to play games to get me to move in? Why ask me to come over and then bring some guy?

[DN]

Get her number from your friend and call her to see if the invitation is still valid.

[llama]

Get her number from your friend and call her to see if the invitation is still valid.

 

DN, I am going. The girl my buddy is seeing is the one having the party. What do you make of this girl bringing some guy? What's that about?

[DN]

Don't know - you will have to assess the situation at the party I guess.

[llama]

I'm guessing this guy isn't anyone special because she wasn't shy about her top coming off in front of me and I did do some playful touching on her leg, which she didn't stop me from doing. Maybe her gay bff trying to see if I'm a douche? lol

[Day_Walker]

I think that youre getting too concerned of this guys possible role. Go to the party, have a good time with her, flirt and see what happens.

[TakingtheBlame]

I'm guessing this guy isn't anyone special because she wasn't shy about her top coming off in front of me and I did do some playful touching on her leg, which she didn't stop me from doing. Maybe her gay bff trying to see if I'm a douche? lol

 

She may just be the flirtatious type, or an exhibitionist, who knows? She barely knows you so she can be flirtatious and/or a tease with as many guys as she wants. Maybe she's casually seeing a few guys and looking for others. There's no way of knowing what's up without knowing more details.

[llama]

I think that youre getting too concerned of this guys possible role. Go to the party, have a good time with her, flirt and see what happens.

 

You're totally right, and that's exactly what I'm going to do.

 

TakingtheBlame- Great point and you're correct also. I have no idea of knowing until I get more details. I'm just going to take the nonchalant yet direct approach and simply ask.