juzzle Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 My girlfriend and i have been dating now for about 2 months we have fooled around alot and i really like her. were both 18 and virgins but we have known each other for about 2 years and since we have started dating we have become like bestfriends. we both love each other. i know it seems fast but we really do. the problem is she is afraid and strongly doesnt want to have to see my penis or make me climax and ejaculate. she has touched my penis through my pants dry humping and rubbing etc but has a problem with physically seeing it. she says she feels really bad about not doing it and i dont want to pressure her into doing something she doesnt want to do. ive made her orgasm and im really good at it and getting her turned on so it makes her feel bad that shes afraid to actually do the same for me. she eventually wants to have sex soon but is also afraid that im going to hurt her because my penis is quite large for her or she thinks so. its about 8 inches and 2 in girth. i really need some advice on what to do about this because if we have problems with her doing anything that benefits me it could really damage the relationship we have built Link to comment
NightLily Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Sounds like she isn't ready for that yet. You guys are still young and from the sounds of it you are her first. So just take you time and enjoy getting to know eachother. She will eventually come around and it may take some getting used to for her so just be patient. Link to comment
BrokenSmile Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 That's similar to what it was like with my ex and I. I was 18 and not only a virgin, but very inexperienced sexually. So even though we were in love and very attracted to each other, we moved at a very slow pace and took things one step at a time. All we did was kiss and fool around with our clothes on for the first three months, and it progressed slowly from there. But this was a rate both of us were comfortable with, and in the end, I'm glad it happened that way. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 So wait, you're giving her orgasms, but she doesn't even want to see your penis? Next. Link to comment
annony Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 As silly as it seems, penises scare me too. You'd never know it, because I hide it well and suck it up, but there is just something about them that makes them a bit unnerving to me. Hopefully this fear of hers will pass as she gets used to the idea Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 i had never seen one in real life until i saw my BF's, at first i was a bit intimitated, for lack of a better word, cause i wasn't really scared....but once i started touching him more and more and seeing him repsond to my touches and bj's, i got over that very quickly, i love looking at it now, i love touching it and i can watch him sleep for hours and then just watch him, watch his penis get erect and flacid randomly in his sleep, love it!! i think she will get over it, she is just inexperienced and nervous...take it slowly....my BF asked me if i wanted to see it the first time we made love, he was very sweet and careful as well and took it really slowly.... Link to comment
Snowy Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 i can watch him sleep for hours and then just watch him, watch his penis get erect and flacid randomly in his sleep, love it!! LOL haha.... Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 im guessing there are other issues at play here. Link to comment
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