I like my best friend but we're both girls...

[hikari]

Recently, I came out to my best friend as being bi-curious, and the only reason I told her is because she is bi as well. She is 15 and I am 14 (please don't tell me I don't know what I'm talking about because of my age or that I'm just confused). Well, a few days ago, we went to see a movie together, everybody in my family and a couple other friends laughed and said it was a date. Me and her were the only two people there so I held her hand and after the movie, she was willing to kiss me when we got to her house since I was going to be staying the night, but i was too shy I guess. I really like her and I want to kiss her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, and she says she doesn't like me in the same way, but I'm one of the best friends she's had and she wants to make me happy. I just need advice about what I should do if I want to kiss her, and how to keep my family from knowing since they think I'm bi and they tease me about it.

[mouseno4]

This situation is no different than a girl - guy. If one party isnt interested, its not likely to happen.

[Kitkat973]

A relationship can't work if one person is making concessions to romantic overtures in order to make the other person happy, while having no real romantic interest.

 

With that said, friendship can survive something like this. It can be hard because the lines blur, but if you're open and honest with each other (which is only made more difficult by being young, I know) it can work. Sometimes it's sad, or frustrating, or you're left questioning what something meant and what you are if you're not just friends but you're not together- but you can make it work.