i deleted him from facebook and he said this on it. what to do?

[IrishGrl]

"not sure why you've stopped being my friend on this... i lost my phone at the festival was just going to let you know that i canceled my phone number and might need to get some numbers back but i suppose that doesn't matter now. bye"

[dramallama]

He's probably hurt because he expected that you would stay friends. But what he must realise is that you did this for YOU and it's not even about him. Don't even respond. He wants to guilt trip you. Change your settings so that only friends can message, and non-friends can only see ONE profile picture and your first and surname.

[IrishGrl]

I was thinking of going up to his tomorrow and talk to him about it...I have some of his stuff here and im moving away...

[CatsMeeoow]

He is just being a pill....

 

How incredibly rude to think you'll suffice at being his secretary and filling him in on missing numbers... honestly, he can contact his friends via facebook and let them know this very thing! He needs to get over himself.

[dramallama]

I was thinking of going up to his tomorrow and talk to him about it...I have some of his stuff here and im moving away...

What is there to talk about though? Explaining = justifying. And you don't need to justify moving on from someone that has dumped you.

[IrishGrl]

He is acting like a spoiled kid! Ok maybe I shouldnt call up to him. I cant contact him by phone because he lost it. I am leaving the country in a few months (he doesnt know) and I just don't want to leave it like this. Maybe I should respond to the FB message, not sure what to say...

 

 

I still love him...

[Snowy]

Don't respond. Never.

 

There's an option on Facebook called block you know...? You could try that.

[dramallama]

He is acting like a spoiled kid! Ok maybe I shouldnt call up to him. I cant contact him by phone because he lost it. I am leaving the country in a few months (he doesnt know) and I just don't want to leave it like this. Maybe I should respond to the FB message, not sure what to say...

 

 

I still love him...

But he's chosen not to be with you. If he truly loved you he wouldn't get all butt-hurt when you try to move on after being dumped. He knows you are leaving the country in a few months, right? If so then HE will get his act together before then if he wants to be with you. It's selfish of him to make you feel like the guilty one for moving on.