It's pretty depressing to watching most of your ex's in relationships. . .

[allsunny]

I kinda don't want a relationship right now. I know it takes work, and commitment, and I have some goals I want to accomplish before I considering compromising. I know I'll just get frustrated in a relationship right now. But, it's still depressing to see most of your ex's find their soul mate, and it sucks that I wasn't their soul mate, and they weren't mine.

[mouseno4]

And how do you really know what they have is their soul mate? Pretty sure you cant read minds. You cant know for certain everyone else is happy. What everyone shows you isnt necessarily the truth.

 

Make yourself busy and just ignore everyone else for a while. Go make yourself happy.

[faithful14]

I Agree, looking on the outside, it may look perfect but you never really know. And I have the perfect example of this.

 

Today, when I was at work with friends, we were talking about people who we have kept in touch from high school and the name of one girl that we all talk to came up. She and her boyfriend have been together for 8 years and everything on their facebook is about how happy they are and how much they love each other. Sounds perfect right? Well, one of our friends let slip that they both regularly cheat on each other. It was shocking to hear since you see all their lovey-dovey messages/statuses about each other, but it just shows that you never really know what is happening between two people.

[orchidrose]

Yeah, I know what you mean. But on the other hand, even if they did find their soulmate, that means that yours is still out there somewhere. My first love just told me that he's getting married, and it actually made me kind of relieved - I don't have to worry anymore about if and when we're going to end up together, or if I missed out on my chance with him. It's over and he's met the person that he's meant to be with, so I just need to get on with finding the right person for me.

[miky077]

My exes relationship just ended with the guy she cheated on me with i had some good laughs he broke up with her didn't think it would happen so soon. Now she's trying to win him back but sadly he prob has another chick already and he hasn't messaged her anyways its fun watching your exes life crumble for what they did to you.

[Ms Darcy]

Yeah, I know what you mean. But on the other hand, even if they did find their soulmate, that means that yours is still out there somewhere. My first love just told me that he's getting married, and it actually made me kind of relieved - I don't have to worry anymore about if and when we're going to end up together, or if I missed out on my chance with him. It's over and he's met the person that he's meant to be with, so I just need to get on with finding the right person for me.

 

I think this is a really healthy attitude to have.