2 weeks since last seeing her but nothing since

[tom1607307597]

I've been talking to this girl from a previous thread and we've been making plans sometimes to meet up during the week. We've been going back and forth playing the rescheduling game for the last 2 or 3 weeks. First we were supposed to meet up after the 11th, then she went to Vegas until the 20th. I waited a few days after to message her and on friday I asked her if she wants to get together again. She had to study to a test that coming sunday. I replied back saying that I'd like to get together monday. She just messaged me back on facebook saying she'd like to but it's too hot outside, so she suggested talking on skype instead. That's last part is understandable, lately it's been getting between 100 to 110 degrees where I live.

 

Honestly though, what are the chances if me going out with this girl again? Or even seeing her in person for that matter? I can understand she has a busy schedule. She does research at a local science center and she's probably taking 1 or 2 classes, or else she wouldn't mention taking tests during the summer. She wants to talk on skype so she still seems interested in me, but I'm not sure as a friend or potential boyfriend at this point. Maybe this is her way of telling me she doesn't like me that way? She did something similar when I asked her out to a Vietanamese restaurant and she suggested we she just "hang out" on campus together instead. This 4th of July I was going to invite her (she can bring along her friends too) and 1 of my friends to go watch some fireworks for one last try and see if anything happens. If not I'll probably stop asking her out on things. What can I do at this point to see if she likes me as more than a friend?

[tom1607307597]

*bump* Any advice?

[waterlilly]

everyone is different, I don't like to go out to eat. I would rather just hang out. Maybe she is like that. Also sounds like she is really busy. I would think if she doesn't make time within the next week she isn't that into it. good luck.

[tom1607307597]

I'm starting to get the feeling that she doesn't enjoy talking to me. I started talking with her on skype and she ended the conversation after 5 minutes. This was around 12:30 AM and she said she was really tired, and I'd rather give her the benefit of the doubt right now and guess she was telling the truth. But even if she was, if you really liked someone wouldn't most people stay up anyway because its that much fun? I don't get this girl at all. Either she is too busy or she just doesn't like me anymore.

[tom1607307597]

Final Update: I asked her if she and her friends want to hang out on the fourth of july. Try to keep it casual and have fun. If she doesn't reply or says no I'm just going to move on. It's a shame because this is the first girl in a long time that I've been thinking about constantly. *sigh* :sad: