Love1336 Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 My ex is so out of HAND. He FREAKEN telling everyone, and anyone at the job that i am a CRAZED woman who wants him so BADLY. I found out by my close friend, which i know she wouldn't lied! What for?! UGH. Why me? Seriously! He the ONE who broke NC, he the ONE was telling me i was special! HE THE ONE! YET i am the CRAZED LOSER GIRL? Tell me why? Because I'm so UGLY? (which i am not) BECAUSE I HAVE A JOB AND ALSO DONE WITH SCHOOL THAT I WOULD LOOK AT HIM? SERIOUSLY. I feel like i take 1000 steps forward then my ex come out of NOWHERE and drags me back. He knows I have a temper issue he knows this would set me off! And yet he does this to me! Seriously! SERIOUSLY?!??! Somebody tell me to calm down! Somebody here tell me I'm being a baby! So i can take my attention away from him! Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 My ex is so out of HAND. He FREAKEN telling everyone, and anyone at the job that i am a CRAZED woman who wants him so BADLY. That's a sign of immaturity. As hard as it is, you have to let it go and be grateful you are no longer with someone like that. Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Calm down! he's an ex, he can talk * * * * all he wants, don't get sucked in to it. What he says now should mean nothing to you, don't let what he says control your life! Link to comment
Love1336 Posted June 26, 2011 Author Share Posted June 26, 2011 Calm down! he's an ex, he can talk * * * * all he wants, don't get sucked in to it. What he says now should mean nothing to you, don't let what he says control your life! But it's at the job. I work with these people... i don't want them thinking i'm crazy for him still. It just isn't fair. Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Ever thought of just confronting him in front of everyone? LOL. A girl did that to me in high school, god that hurt. Link to comment
Love1336 Posted June 26, 2011 Author Share Posted June 26, 2011 LOL. Not at my job those. Maybe at the gym in front of his friends. Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 LOL. Not at my job those. Maybe at the gym in front of his friends. Just tell him, yell it straight out if you hear him talking about it again.. Why not, what could go wrong with telling him he's got no chance of getting you? Link to comment
kingofatlantis Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 slash your name into his car seats. Joking that would classify you as crazy. Just ignore it, most people will probably not even care what he's saying I know I didn't when one of my friends kept talking smack about his ex it actually shows he's immature and not over the breakup in my opinion (granted you didn't do anything terrible). Don't let it get to you and laugh at him. My ex started rumors once and I just laughed at her and shrugged it off, boy did she get even angrier which followed with me laughing more. Link to comment
Love1336 Posted June 26, 2011 Author Share Posted June 26, 2011 slash your name into his car seats. Joking that would classify you as crazy. Just ignore it, most people will probably not even care what he's saying I know I didn't when one of my friends kept talking smack about his ex it actually shows he's immature and not over the breakup in my opinion (granted you didn't do anything terrible). Don't let it get to you and laugh at him. My ex started rumors once and I just laughed at her and shrugged it off, boy did she get even angrier which followed with me laughing more. Laugh it off? Yeah. They is nothing i can do. But be happy. *le sigh* I wish my ex did not behave like this. I wish i had another job. Link to comment
Cadence44 Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Rise above. No matter what he says to other people, if they see you acting calm and rational, they will decide for themselves that his words are to be taken with a grain of salt. You don't need to say anything, just ignore the whole drama. If someone asks you about it, just say that there are two sides to every story and change the subject. However, if you try to fight back and give signals that what he says affects you, they are more likely to decide that perhaps you are a little unbalanced. Actions will speak louder than words. Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Pretend to come on to him, at his house. Tell him you want to try some bondage, handcuff the * * * * * to the bed and run. LOL Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Just stay confident and do not say anything. These people must already have some opinion of you and I doubt it is that you are crazy. Just ignore him and do not respond to any of it. If they tell you something he said just stay confident and laugh. They will soon realize who the crazy one is and it's not you. Link to comment
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