Parsipan12 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Ok, there is a guy at the pool that I met two years ago . At that time right after we met, he asked me if I wanted to meet him at his house later that day for a beer. I said ok. I went there and after a beer I started freaking out. Why was I naive enough to go to a guy's house right after I met him. I scaredmyself * * * * less. I left. He sends me a text asking me if I scared him. I said yes. Did not talk to him after that for 2 years. About a month ago I went to the same pool and he was there with his daughter. He saw me and waved. I jumped up out off the ground and ran to him. We talked for about 20 minutes , I was all smiles. Did not remember that I had told him that he scared me. Then he swam with his daughter and me alone. When I left I waved bye. After that day I was feeling so many things, like I wanted to get back together. I had already erased his number off of my phone. So I thought I need to start going back to the pool again, maybe I'll run into him. I went Thursday , he was not there. I went today and he was there!
Xylitol Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 He has a daughter and wife? Then staying away even a thousand miles isn't enough, go with someone who isn't taken.
Parsipan12 Posted June 26, 2011 Author Posted June 26, 2011 No he does not have a wife. What do you think?
mouseno4 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 If he is not attached/married and you are quite happy to date a father, then that is perfectly fine. Just take it much slower this time, and dont be 'too easy'.
Mustachio Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 So, you freaked out last time. You want advice, when you see him again go talk to him and maybe ask him out.
Parsipan12 Posted June 26, 2011 Author Posted June 26, 2011 So, you freaked out last time. You want advice, when you see him again go talk to him and maybe ask him out. Thanks everyone for your replies. BUT, I want him to ask me out first. How can I pull this off. I don't know even if he will see me if I am in a crowd at the pool. Thanks in advance for your input.
Parsipan12 Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 I went to the pool today early in the morning and he was not there. It was so simple before, I was simply going to the pool for fun, I did not expect to see him there. Now every time I go to the pool I'll have this weight hanging above my head that he may or may not show up. I don't even have any evidence that he is the slightest bit interested! The way we left it previously was that I walked over to the lap lanes and he was swimming laps so instead of asking him if I could share a lane, I just walked away. Then later on I had the guts to go back and got in to share a lane next to him. Now we both stopped at the head of the lanes and said high to each other. He must have seen me. Then I swam a couple of more laps. He said he had swam 32 laps so he said that was a mile. BUT then at the end of it all he just waited for me ( I saw him ) waiting for me to get to the pool lane end and then said "bye 'my name' " so that's the end of it.
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