Am I really just over reacting about this 'cheating' insident ?

[Neveyboo]

i've known this guy for awhile and I have always 'liked' him but I never acted on it cause hes 2 years older and we dont ever talk , but my best friend is with his friend and i told her i liked him( him and his girl were only over ) so she said to him that myself and him should meet up which he agreed to! He was shy the 1st time but since we have met up a few times and we started dating but not exactly bf and gf style..The only problem is i went to a club the other night and got drunk and kissed 2 guys .. I was crying when i realised what i was after doing and rang him straight away ! I feel soo bad I have never ever ''cheated'' before and he hasnt really shown much emotion since and he keeps askin my friends what really happened cause he was kinda upset .. I really feel bad cause I was defo starting to feel something strong for him What should I do ?3

[mouseno4]

People do stupid things whilst drunk. A lot of girls on this site would baulk pretty hard if a guy did the same thing, instantly insisting the end of the relationship.

 

I disagree. Some girls and guys go all the way whilst they are completely and utterly stone cold drunk. You didnt, and instantly felt really horrible after only kissing. I think that if someone cannot forgive someone for something as simple and basic as kissing whilst drunk - which would not be hard to do - then as far as im concerned they are just too stubborn for me.

[Mustachio]

Well it sounds like you two arent exclusive so I dont think what you did was wrong per se. The issue is that you two are dating and learning about each other and this might just one of those things that for him is a deal breaker. I could be wrong. You fessed up and told him which is good, now you just have to wait and see how he reacts and what he will do with that information.

[listed]

It's still early (if you guys are getting into a relationship). I'd just take it as a lesson.

[xyzzzz]

I think right now u should worrg abt how he feels..sounds likr he has the final decision right?