Empty feeling in my heart,what is it?

[Lostinlonely]

I'm 15 and I've had this 'empty feeling' in my heart since 2009.It makes me feel like crying I am not sure what it is.Please do not say it's hormones because I know it isn't.So what is this feeling?

[Blue Skittles]

Do you think it might be depression? I don't know much about your background... but maybe things that have happened in the past have caused you to feel this way. Perhaps you should go talk to a counsellor and you can discover more about why you are feeling this way and what you can do to help.

 

You are 15, and I remember having a tough time at that age too. It was hard because I wasn't the most "popular" kid in the world and I never really had a boyfriend throughout highschool. I think you need to find yourself, discover yourself and start making some goals for the future. Maybe there is a club or something you can join to keep yourself busy. Does your school offer a lot of sports/artsy clubs? What about your friendships? Do you have some friends that are close to you that you can hang out with when you are feeling down?

[DanDee]

You sound very lonely - which stems from a lack of significant connections with people around you (friends, family, a bf/gf).

 

Can I ask, did anything happen in 2009 to make you feel this way?

[Xylitol]

what happened in 2009?

[Lostinlonely]

Everyone started to leave me in 2009 to make me feel like this,I was alone and friendless and I needed love..only the kind a bf/gf could give and I didn't have one at all and till this day I still feel like this and it kills me deep down inside.

[RoboDuck]

I'm 15 and I've had this 'empty feeling' in my heart since 2009.It makes me feel like crying I am not sure what it is.Please do not say it's hormones because I know it isn't.So what is this feeling?

 

It's Christmas! Oh, wait, no, it's a tumor.

 

Stop being emo and enjoy the part of life before you have to work hard to provide things for other people. If you don't, you'll wish you had later.

[BlueMilk]

Everyone started to leave me in 2009 to make me feel like this,I was alone and friendless and I needed love..only the kind a bf/gf could give and I didn't have one at all and till this day I still feel like this and it kills me deep down inside.

 

That's your problem. No one can give you that, no one. No boyfriend, no girlfriend. If you seek that kind of happiness from them then you will end up with the wrong people. You have to figure out how to make yourself happy before you can even think of making others happy. If you rely on them then they will disappoint you at some point too, they have to, they are human.

[Lostinlonely]

It's Christmas! Oh, wait, no, it's a tumor.

 

Stop being emo and enjoy the part of life before you have to work hard to provide things for other people. If you don't, you'll wish you had later.

I'm not emo,i've also had alot of deaths in my family and that is part of what is making me feel like this too

[Blue Skittles]

I think a lot of what you are feeling is fear. You have lost people close to you, you have lost friends, and you are probably afraid of being alone and without a bf for a long time. I would have to say, that you are young, and you have your whole future ahead of you. Start discovering yourself. Try new things, find things that you are passionate about. This year I was feeling pretty lonely so I joined a triathlon group and started swim training, biking, and jogging. It was a great thing to work on cuz the exercise made me feel better and it took up a good part of my free time. When you start doing things like this, you will naturally meet other people and they will have the same interests as you, a great foundation for a strong friendship!