I need advice!!

[Ash789]

Well, this is gonna be kinda long story! I met this guy online in 2008, we dated for few days in cyber relationship, then we broke up and didn't talk for a year, when we resumed talking in feb of 2009, still a cyber relationship, I begin to lie to him I never really told him truth about anything till sept of 2010, so I lied for over a year, but he forgave me we always fight since beginning we have good periods but it lasts for really short period, in dec of 2010 is when he began to change! He started acting like a * * * * * * * a lot he doesn't care abt me, I know I lied and I was kinda reason for our arguments, in feb 2011 he said that he wanted date a another girl which never happened but it made me feel horrible, march/April 2011 is when we officially broke he would tell me very hurtful things like I never wanna be with u, u were never what I wanted, get f outta my life I DON'T LOVE U * etc. And right now, most recently we are always arguing bc he makes me feel like I'm nothing and worthless like I'm just there so he can have random convos with BUT HE SAYS HE LOVES ME NOW and we talk a lot but we keep arguing it never end, currently yes he is my ex but we talk so much, we still haven't met I feel like I should leave sometimes but it's so hardddd I don't know what to do anymore I love him so much but seems like I'm nothing than someone to entertain him cuz he doesn't really have friend *

(he says he enjoys being ahole to me) *

(he never cares what bothers me when I'm upset he says he's too happy of person deal with my problems) *

(we never have good phone convos and he doesn't flirt with me anymore) *

[Celadon]

What you describe isn't a healthy, fulfilling relationship, unfortunately. Why not take a one-month break from it -- no contact -- and see how you feel about him at that point? My bet is that you'll wonder why you cared about him so much and got so wrapped up in him. Good luck.

[Ms Darcy]

You need to cut him off and make friends in real life.

[catfeeder]

Did you ever even meet this guy?

 

If not, you're arguing with a stranger who types. What's in that for you?