miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 After constant relationships and break ups some might give up on love but don't because the love of you're life is in front of your eyes you just don't see him/her. I recently found out i'm in love with my best friend (been friends for 13 years) she is everything i'v ever wanted in girl and more, here I was going on wild goose chases for girls with these qualities failing every time, when i'v finally realized what i'v needed was always in front of me. So to the people who have given up on love don't give up because love will be in the most obvious place you'll just over look it but it will still be there and it won't go anywhere only grow stronger for you. Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 The thing is about us men is that we set our standards high ever wonder why the relationships are always failing, the love of your life is in front of you you'll see that person if you look hard enough. Maybe you weren't meant to be with some extremely hot Latina, maybe you were meant to be with someone because of their personality or w/e the reason may be that love is there, " it is where you least expect it". Care to share your story Yaz? BTW: It does not mean you have to be in a relationship with the person that person can still be the love of your life and not be in a relationship not everyone is meant to be in one. Link to comment
Yaz Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I thought a friend was my best friend/soul mate, that we were close and shared a genuine connection (just a stupid assumption on my part). He told me otherwise. We've been friends for a long time, too. Having friends, relationships - it's just disappointing. I don't know how to feel about anything anymore. Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Did that affect your relationship with him? society makes people think hings like oh we got to get married or be in a relationship well you don't, you can still love that person and not be in a relationship with them as long as just having the person in your life makes you happy. Like with my best friend for eg we both love each other but i don't want to go into a relationship with her because people tend to change whenever i'm in a relationship with them turn into what they are not. In my case i think i'm meant to stay single i;ll just have to wait, you should wait for the person to start giving signals first are you still friends with him? Link to comment
Yaz Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I guess so? We haven't fought or anything. Like I said, I don't know what to think anymore. I think the signal thing might be hard since we were sleeping together lol I think I'm meant to be single, too. Or at least society's definition of what single is. Imma just play it by ear. I don't want the rubbish and stress, I'm just disappointed and flat-feeling and don't care? It's weird. Whatever. Maybe PMS HAHAHAHAHAHA Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I found this quote, is actually one of the best quotes i'll ever read. Think about this. The person you are going to marry is walking the Earth at this very second. That thought alone should give you hope to continue each and every day, knowing someone, somewhere is completely in love with you, even if you both don't know it yet. Best advice when i'm down in the dumps about my break-up =). Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 LMAO maybe i would go no contact with my ex when it came to her period because she gets on my nerves, i really did think she was the one lol until she cheated and i just gave her the best F U i could think of haha. I just read your thread lol your situation is kinda weird he values people he's known less years than you? that's harsh. Maybe he just doesn't know how to express his feelings for you or he has none at all, i slept with my best friend i gotta admit better than my ex lol Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 I found this quote, is actually one of the best quotes i'll ever read. Think about this. The person you are going to marry is walking the Earth at this very second. That thought alone should give you hope to continue each and every day, knowing someone, somewhere is completely in love with you, even if you both don't know it yet. Best advice when i'm down in the dumps about my break-up =). ^^^This is really good advice the person you are looking for is right in the open and walking this earth right now that so never look to far because they are "in your face". Link to comment
Yaz Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 LMAO maybe i would go no contact with my ex when it came to her period because she gets on my nerves, i really did think she was the one lol until she cheated and i just gave her the best F U i could think of haha. I just read your thread lol your situation is kinda weird he values people he's known less years than you? that's harsh. Maybe he just doesn't know how to express his feelings for you or he has none at all, i slept with my best friend i gotta admit better than my ex lol Well, he's just using me - at least you love your friend. It's hard. I just have to give up thinking about it. I truly don't care. He can F-OFF. I'm worth more. Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Well, he's just using me - at least you love your friend. It's hard. I just have to give up thinking about it. I truly don't care. He can F-OFF. I'm worth more. You're not worth something, you're priceless! Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Yeah he is just using you most likely because he doesn't want to be alone you made the right choice by going NC just never look back you'll find that person if they exist, just know you don't need a relationship to be happy just love yourself. Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Well, he's just using me - at least you love your friend. It's hard. I just have to give up thinking about it. I truly don't care. He can F-OFF. I'm worth more. You are worth a lot more and no one should use you everyone else should F-OFF. Link to comment
Yaz Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Yeah, so my love wasn't in front of my eyes. I have given up on it Sorry Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Yeah, so my love wasn't in front of my eyes. I have given up on it Sorry Don't let one make you give up on all!. Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Well if that's your choice whatever will make you happy, in my opinion being single is a lot more fun no bs which is why i'm single right now as you said a lot more fun. Don't look for that love just let it come to you if its out there stay single prob will be the best decision of your life. Link to comment
Yaz Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Single doesn't mean you can't love people, it just means you're continually disappointed because no one reciprocates. Whatever. Single is good - all monies spent on self Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Single doesn't mean you can't love people, it just means you're continually disappointed because no one reciprocates. Whatever. Single is good - all monies spent on self ^^^ This, people think that cause you're single you instantly become cold and stop loving, it just means you take less **** from people and love a lot less because people are always giving bs, haha Yaz I like you already, we're soul mates? haha jking. Link to comment
thatguy42 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Nope, not right in front of my eyes. Link to comment
listed Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 I found this quote, is actually one of the best quotes i'll ever read. Think about this. The person you are going to marry is walking the Earth at this very second. That thought alone should give you hope to continue each and every day, knowing someone, somewhere is completely in love with you, even if you both don't know it yet. Best advice when i'm down in the dumps about my break-up =). I'm not sure what the divorce rate in australia is but in the US it's 50%. I'm not trying put down your optimism, just pointing out that marrying someone isn't the end of the battle. Link to comment
He2Him Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Well, since certain period of my life, I really do not like idea of putting emphasis on anyone else but me. Therefore, I don't say that someone, somewhere is waiting for me. But instead, that I'm waiting for that someone in whose eyes I am perfect. lol Looks like almost the same thing, yet completely different. Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 It's not really about relationships, you don't need one to be happy its more about the person you love being in your life, no relationships or marriage required. That person you love is in front of your eyes. Link to comment
MattW Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 "The love you're looking for is always in front of your eyes." In what sense? I know a decent amount of girls, but personality-wise, I'm not compatible with any of them for a "romantic" relationship, and many of them are already involved with guys that they're quite happy with, anyway. Link to comment
miky077 Posted June 26, 2011 Author Share Posted June 26, 2011 "The love you're looking for is always in front of your eyes." In what sense? I know a decent amount of girls, but personality-wise, I'm not compatible with any of them for a "romantic" relationship, and many of them are already involved with guys that they're quite happy with, anyway. The love your looking for it in front of your eyes I never said you had to be in a relationship it could be your best friend, a family member etc... don't try looking for societies definition of love because that love does not exist. Link to comment
Yaz Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Look in the mirror - there you have it. Love yourself. Also, genuine connections come in all forms, not necessarily just romantic relationships. Link to comment
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