He joined a cult and says I'm wicked

[lovesforlife]

I told his family, they don't believe me and think i am the one with a mental disorder. I have depression and have been anxious, stressed, depressed since he broke up with me. I have thousands of dollars of debt and he just bought a new car. He told me he joined a community that requires him not to speak to me. I know his gf does not want him to talk to me and that she does not want him to see me ever. I hurt a lot. I am confused and distraught. I want the pain to end and wish I could end it all but I have a child. I don't have anyone else who could take care of her. I feel so worthless. I hurt so much. They all think I am crazy. He never talks to me anymore and when he does he tells me he is not going to be here very long.

[BellaDonna]

That's a very unfortunate situation. For your well being, and the well being of your daughter you need to stay far away from him. He is not a healthy person to be around if he is being brainwashed.

 

I know it's hard but you have to forget about him and start focusing on yourself. You should talk to a counselor. It sounds like you could be having a major depressive episode. It may have been triggered by the breakup and the circumstances surrounding it but at this point consider your depression an illness, in an of itself, separate from him, that needs treatment. It sounds like you are having a hard time functioning so it must be difficult to care for your daughter under this stress.

 

Do you have anyone in your family or any friend that would be able to help? Perhaps they could watch your daughter so you could set up a consultation with a counselor?

 

Before you can get your finances in order you need to get your health in order, otherwise it will just feel like the world is caving in on you.

[lovesforlife]

I feel like the world is caving in on me. I don't understand. I am so confused and hurt. Now his family thinks I am crazy and I have no one here I trust to turn to. I moved here for him and he knows I have no friends or family here. I am in a lot of pain. I am scared for him and now confused if he is just lying about the cult to hurt me. Why would he do that?

[agent1607307371]

Lovesforlife, it sounds like he only wants contact with you that will hurt you. He may be lying about the cult, he may not be.

 

But really, the only thing that matters is getting away from him and focussing on yourself and your daughter. Do you have anyone who could help you? Maybe return home?

[lovesforlife]

I don't really have anyone to help me. I am having a very difficult time.

[BellaDonna]

Do you have a general doctor that you can call to get a referral to a counselor?