huntereyes Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 i dont know if you guys remember what our story was, but search my other thread and you'll find it. he just got back today from tour and texted me this "hey. i just got back in town today. my next 5 days are pretty insane but if you still want to sit down and talk later i can explain some stuff better. i feel really bad for the way i told you. let me know" all i said back was "hi. okay sure. we'll talk after the music festival." 2 hours later i was on facebook and he msged me saying "so...you must be really pissed off at me" "no" "are you sure?" "yes." and then i logged off. he messaged my best friend (who he barely talked to when we dated) and said "hope you feel better" cause she got in an accident and messaged her boyfriend about band stuff, her boyfriend brought up me, and he was talking about how what happened was his own issues and he hopes that we can talk and im not too pissed off so we can have a proper conversation." what do you think?
dramallama Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 What more is there to say though? It doesn't sound like he wants to reconcile, and I think he if he feels so guilty and wants to get stuff off of his chest, then ask him to put in an email. Delete and block him from facebook too.
Lavender25 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 I do remember you story and I remember saying that I didn't think he would get back in touch. Looks like he did, though, but it also looks like he doesn't feel any differently than he did when he broke up with you. What about you? How are you feeling? Do you still feel like you need him to explain why it's over to you or do you think you're fine with just accepting that it IS over. I was recently in your position and felt like I needed to have that last conversation with my ex so I could understand better. We never did have that conversation and now a month has gone by and I don't feel like I need to have it anymore because it won't change anything. It's still over.
huntereyes Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 hm i dont know, it'd be nice to sit down and talk. So i could get some idea on what happened...i've been doing great actually. I came to the conclusion that if things worked out they did, and if they didnt they didnt. Not the end of the world.
iBroken Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 IF you are doing great today, then dont meet him for the chat. What else is there to know? Your other thread says he left for another girl. His contact is only to alleviate some guilt he is feeling about the break up - I dont see anything more from it. The contact to your friends is to save face, so hes not pegged as the bad guy.
huntereyes Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 no....he didnt leave for another girl keep reading the thread
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