Makeout Advice?

[leebtiger]

So Im hoping to make out with my boyfriend this week but have no idea what to do with my hands! So any ideas? We aren't going to have sex so let's keep it appropriate...ish also I don't really want to hear it's natural or easy. So guys what are ur faves and girls what does your man enjoy? Also how far should I let him go?

[Capricorn3]

How old are you?

[honestly4u]

How old are you??? If you are "hoping" to make out with your boyfriend and not sure what to do with you hands....maybe you are too young to be considering this venture.

[Celadon]

Not knowing your bf (or you, but that's beside the point, lol), I'd encourage you to practice beforehand what you'll say when you want to put the brakes on things. Sentences like, "I don't feel comfortable with that. Why don't you caress me here" (while moving his hand to a more appropriate place). And simply a gentle yet firm, "Uh-uh. No..." will go along way to keeping the experience enjoyable. You need to be in control, 'cause things can get out of hand, esp. if you two are teenagers and have raging hormones. When he's doing something you like and is appropriate, give him positive feedback, too.

 

As for my bf, he likes my hands all over the place. Arms, back. If he can see you enjoy touching him and feeling what he feels like, he will like it.

[mouseno4]

I don't always agree with everyone here, but I must admit your question is a bit odd.

 

HIS hands should never go anywhere you don't want them to go. As for yours, well I am going to assume you are very young and therefore it's pretty obvious where your hands should be.

 

When your 'making out' - the term that describes lots of kissing - you should put them where it would make things easier for you.

[leebtiger]

I don't know where this idea of me being very young came from so whatever. But thanks to Katie and mouse I enjoy hearing you thoughts and advice, fingers crossed it goes alright!

[mouseno4]

I mean no disrespect. Try making out with your hands by your side the whole time. It would be pretty hard. Now think of your guys body and what area you could hold onto or apply pressure to that would make kissing easier. That is where they should go.

[21YD]

hold his face or shoulders, if its the first time you dont wana seem too easy.

watch romantic movie scenes for ideas the rest is up to you. dont think too hard , and go with the flow.

[leebtiger]

Yea true, I should have thought through this before posting, but you are right. Thanks

[Capricorn3]

There was no disrespect in asking your age. The reason for asking was because I would give different advice to a 13 year old than I would for a 23 year old. I wouldn't want total strangers on the internet telling my 13 year old daughter how to make out etc. ~shrug~

[leebtiger]

okay it just seemed insulting to immediately jump to a conclusion, which i assumed because of honestly4u's comment. If you would like to know I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. Thanks for clarifying, I appologize for being pissed off.

[honestly4u]

There was no disrespect in asking your age. The reason for asking was because I would give different advice to a 13 year old than I would for a 23 year old. I wouldn't want total strangers on the internet telling my 13 year old daughter how to make out etc. ~shrug~

 

Exactally my point. Thank you Capricorn3

[Tennisplayer]

Well I LOVE it when my girl tugs my hair! And I like it when she feels my chest/abs. But mostly I love the pulling hair

[jonny15]

Well I LOVE it when my girl tugs my hair! And I like it when she feels my chest/abs. But mostly I love the pulling hair

 

You like it rough. HAHA

 

I dunno if i'd care to much for hair pulling.

[Capricorn3]

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