I don't have what it takes

[universalsigh]

I'm in a pretty bad place mentally tonight. I feel very lonely. It doesn't seem to be happening in the whole relationship department, and I'm getting a little worried about it.

 

I still think about my ex-girlfriend everyday, even though we broke up over 6 months ago. I highly doubt she thinks about me that much. I'd love to be with her again but she doesn't want that.

 

I've dated a few girls. I get to around the third date when I either screw it all up somehow, or just lose interest.

 

The only pathetic thing I thought I had going for me was the fact that this girl I hooked up with a few times is going to be at this wedding I'm going to this weekend, so I thought something might happen there, but I just found out she's bringing a date.

 

I've been trying to hang in there, but it's not looking good. I met a pretty girl last night, and even my friend thought I had a chance with her, but I must have dropped the ball because it didn't go anywhere. It just never ends.

 

I just feel stupid. I'm a likable person but I don't have what it takes to get into a relationship. At a certain point I'm just going to give up. I'm pathetic.

[slammin16]

Don't be so hard on yourself. 6 months is really not that long. Don't try to rush things. Remember, good things come to those who wait!

[Leftright]

It sounds to me like you might need to spend some time single and get to know yourself more. There is alot to be said about enjoying time to yourself, and like the previous poster said, don't be so hard on yourself!

 

-LR