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June 22, 2011 in Relationship Advice
Maybe Mr mania is the bf
im not saying exactly are ages but are above 18
What do you do for a living? Do you have a job? does he? Don't either of you ever have to go out of town for work? If he is over 18, he just has to say, "I don't want to go" to his parents and that is it, end of story. Does he have his own place or does he live with them?
My thoughts exactly....
your thoughts are right...... im am the bf
well i am on my one...
Well going on a holiday for 11 days I can guarantee you is not the end of the universe and you will both live I assure you.
Kids, you have to do what your parents tell you, because I seriously doubt you are over 15. If they are paying for you, you have to go. Simple.
its true i dont wana go.... but i will do something to stop going.... i love sarah jane more than anything in this world... no one can stop that... i dont want this holiday... i want her and her only...
we are both over 18!!!!
You act like she's going to dissaper while you are gone. She isn't. She will still be there.
If you are both over 18 you would be more secure in your love and not see this as the end of the universe. Your love will not die in 11 days.
no she wont dissaper... but i need her more than some cheap holiday
but still i know its not up to me but he cant leave me he cant go on holiday i love him more then anything and i will feel soo lost without him around we practically see eachother everyday and it will not feel right..
If your 19, act like it. Being away from someone for 11 days is not going to kill you. Do you really think it's a mature decision to bail on your family like this? No, it's not. Were exactly do you plan on staying while your family is out of the country? How will you eat? How will you get to see your girlfriend?
Then if you are over 18 with your own money you don't need an excuse, right? You simply say you are not going.
I promise you in 2 years, you will want the time apart. It's the honeymoon phase of s relationship, it ends. The all do.
i think you are wrong tbh...
Well as he is 18 and was paying his own way anyway he needs no excuse right? Just say, not going.
but think of how much that would affect the mother still...
Experience tells me I'm not, as will many threads if you looked through the forum. As victoria said, if he's paying for it himself, why does he have to give an excuse?
Then he has to weigh that consequence, right? Everything comes with a consequence whether we like it or not.
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