Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 My boyfriend is going away on holiday to tunisia in 20 days but he doesnt want to go but he doesnt want to tell his mum that he dont wanna go on! Does anyone have any ideas to stop him from going ?? Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 a holiday in tunisia sounds wonderful! tell him to go and just enjoy. bring sunscreen! Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 ps - why does he not want to go? Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 because he wants to stay in england with me because 11 days seems so long to be apart but he has no ideas how to stop fro going ? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 11 days is nothing. He will have a GREAT time. He is not going to miss anything crucial in your lives in 11 days. Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 he just told me he is not going but he doesnt even know a plan to stop him from going!! Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Try 365 days apart and get back to me. Why doesn't he just tell his mom he doesn't want to go? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 How old are the both of you? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Well then you know you wont miss anything crucial in 11 days and he has a great opportunity. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Well then you know you wont miss anything crucial in 11 days and he has a great opportunity. Yep. Nothing earth shattering will happen in this 11 days. Why are they vacationing there? Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 what do u mean by anything crucial ??? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 What is going to happen in 11 days that you can not tell him when he comes back? Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 i know nothing is going to happen but it is the fact that 11 days seems long and he doesnt want to be out of england he feels he should stay in england with me. but as i said he wants ideas of how to get him out of going on holiday... Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 11 days is not long, at all. It's been almost a year since I saw my fiancé. THAT's long. Why is he going on vacation? Family thing or just for fun? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Why does he feel he needs to be with you? If his parents have already paid for the holiday for him he pretty much has no way out. Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 yes it is a family holiday.. and he wants to be with me as he cares about me and that we will both feel lost if he goes... Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 If it's a family holiday he should go, I'm sure his part has already been paid for and it would look really bad if he didn't go because he wanted to sound time with you, his girlfriend vs. A free paid family vacation for just 11 days. It's 11 days, the world won't end. Promise. Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 i'm sorry - he should just go. it's only 11 days, it's a family vacation. i take it he is not an independent adult, so basically, he has to do what his parents say. why don't you two e-mail each other while he is gone? i've never been to tunisia, but my mother has and she had a wonderful time there. tell him to go and enjoy it and have fun and he will see you in 11 days. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 i'm sorry - he should just go. it's only 11 days, it's a family vacation. i take it he is not an independent adult, so basically, he has to do what his parents say. why don't you two e-mail each other while he is gone? i've never been to tunisia, but my mother has and she had a wonderful time there. tell him to go and enjoy it and have fun and he will see you in 11 days. And bring you a gift back! Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Link to comment
Sarah Jane Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 and also whenever someone seems to mention how near it is i just get sad or if i am at home i end up crying over him going on this 11 day holiday tbh i dont want him to go but i know its none of my business really ..... Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 It's 11 days, it's really not that long of a time our of your whole life though. He will get a great experience and bring back loa of pics and gifts for you and will have many stories to tell you. You guys can email while he is gone as well. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Really 11 days is the blink of an eye. I can tell you if my son bailed on a holiday I had paid for he would be working to pay me back. Link to comment
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