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Planning top notch vacation with online dating bimbo. Will it work?

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OK so I have been chatting via Skype, messenger, e-mail with this woman almost daily in France for one year. I live in the US.

I met her via online dating and this would be our fist encounter.

 

Based on pictures and Skype image, she looks really good and she said I she likes my look too.

 

Then we thought about going on vacation together for two weeks; grab a nice resort in Monaco, Lyon and hit Rome in the end and have a good time. I told her I would pay the hotel package and she pays her tickets.

 

She is saying she sometimes feel strange to go on vacation together since she never met me in person. I told her this is the plan:

 

I could meet her in her town for one day. Then once we confirm we feel good with each other, we go on our sweet vacation. She is saying in the resort "we would need to be friends"...

But heck then we would stay in the same hotel room... not sure how that could work.

 

Anybody there successful making this arrangement? Any thoughts?

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Cadence44 Rookie

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So, basically you're looking for hot fantasy vacation sex with someone you respect enough to refer to as a bimbo. When she resists the idea of an overly intimate vacation with someone she has never met in person, you don't listen to what she says. Instead, you continually only think of what you want and start pushing a plan that you'll meet her for one day and then if she finds you as hot as you assume she will, she will jump on the opportunity for a vacation and stay in the same room with you and eff like bunnies. And then you come on here for advice to manipulate her into what you want while continuing to steamroll right over her feelings. God, why won't she just do what you want?! The nerve!

 

The problem is that I'm thinking this is a huge mismatch. You view her as something to possess, while she prefers actually having standing feelings for someone and feeling comfortable around them prior taking such an intimate trip. The one day compromise isn't going to work, because she has different values than you.

 

I don't think you're going to be able to talk her into it, which is just as well.

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annie24 Grand Master

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if i were her, i would not do this. first, you don't seem to respect her, second, this seems like a bizzarely long vacation with someone you've never met. what if there is no interest? and really an expensive 'date.' i think you are better off visiting these places on your own and meeting her for dinner in her hometown.

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RedDress Experienced

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Hmmm... well, you don't get the sensitive person award. You are basically mocking her very real fears and calling her a bimbo. Nice...

 

If you actually care about meeting her (as a person), why not agree to meet in the Caribbean or something? That way you can each have your own room, each do your own thing (or not) on the resort and she doesn't have to worry about travelling with a stranger?

 

Honestly, though? Even suggesting that made me feel icky. I mean... do you care for her health and welfare at all? Why would you want to be with someone who DIDN'T care for their health and welfare enough to think "travelling with a stranger might be dangerous".

 

I think you should hire a hooker instead. They would be MORE than happy to accompany you to Europe - and will put out too!

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OmegaMan Community Regular

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I disagree with the others, go for it.

 

I think she knows full well what she's getting into, that whole ''we'll have to travel as friends'' is rubbish. If she gets a free trip out of it and you get some sex, it's a win win situation. You are both adults, you're old enough to make your own decisions.

 

I mean you'll sleep in the same room for god's sake, no one is naive enough to think you'll be friends.

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Oh wow. I thought I could stay away from here and not post anything, but I can't. I can't stand how anti-man this place is and how the guy is always the bad dude yet no one even knows anything about this woman. You think she doesn't know this is an extended hook up for sex? I'm assuming she's at least in her 20's so she'd really have to be a bimbo not to figure this one out. And even if she is, she has friends I'm sure who are painting her the real picture as we speak.

 

She's already agreed to sex if she has already agreed to the resort and the one room deal. Nobody's that stupid. She's either playing hard to get or just worried she might not like you when you get there and wants a way out just in case. Go along with it, say yes(PLAY THE GAME!), worry about getting into her panties when you get there..... if you can afford it. Personally I would try to close the deal before I make the trip, but then again, I don't have that kind of money to waste and it is not always possible.

 

If the day goes bad....make sure you have a way to cancel the hotel package. Or set up a second date, just in case. That way your trip is not all for nothing. Like others have said, it's an expensive piece of booty, but at the same time I also understand the thrill of an adventure in an exotic place if you have that kind of money to throw around. I'm sure she understands that too. Life's too short not to enjoy it. It's win-win if it goes well. Get to see a new place, and have fun with a sexy woman. Don't listen to the haters.

 

Have fun! Just remember, one of you could very well likely end up getting hurt. Do your best so it's not you!

 

PS: It's very likely SHE understands what this is more than you do!

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Eh, eh you got it. If it goes beyound that, hey great. In the worst case scenario, if she bails out in the last minute I cancel hotel and spend days in old Europe having a drink.

I disagree with the others, go for it.

 

I think she knows full well what she's getting into, that whole ''we'll have to travel as friends'' is rubbish. If she gets a free trip out of it and you get some sex, it's a win win situation. You are both adults, you're old enough to make your own decisions.

 

I mean you'll sleep in the same room for god's sake, no one is naive enough to think you'll be friends.

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OptomisticGirl Mentor

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Hey man, how can she be fully comfortable if we never met in real life.

 

It's a gamble, our and simple. You could meet and hate each other or fall madly in love. My fiancé and I took the precautions in case we didn't like each other but we were super lucky - within 30 mins we were just like we had been online.

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annie24 Grand Master

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If you regard her as a "bimbo" then clearly you don't really respect her or see her as dating material. If meaningless sex is all you're after, there's far less expensive ways of getting it than taking some stranger on a European vacation.

 

seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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