UPDATE to my post on 6/16/11 "My BF Refuses to Stop Talking to his Ex-GF"

[whatnow44]

If you read my post on 6/16/11 regarding my boyfriend's ex keying his car and doing $2,000 worth of damage because he and I had gotten back together, well this is a follow up as to what has happened in the past two days.

 

I found my boyfriend and his ex (the woman that keyed his car at my house) at a pool hall...they were both totally drunk and all over each other. They were laughing and talking and having a great time. They were both shocked to see me show up there. She came over to me and got in my face and with a big grin, said she felt sorry for me. My boyfriend said they were just having fun!! Now I see why he was never very upset about her keying his car and wanted to stay in touch with her.

 

Just wanted to let you people know the outcome of this. Truly a lesson learned. I guess his ex won after all.

[elcie]

Yeah!.....she won the booby prize!!!!!

 

You're the one who'll end up the winner ( if you consider this to be a competition! ), because you wont have someone like him in your life.

 

Today is the first day of the rest of your life!

[CatsMeeoow]

In agreement with elcie... wow... what a winner... now put that smile back on your face and realize how much more you are worth than this silly drama...

[whatsthedeal]

omgggg!!! You are soooo lucky you caught them!!!!

 

You dont need to garbage in your life!!! Gosh!People like that boggle my mind!

 

Dont worry Karma`s a ..B*****!!!!

 

They both deserve eachother

[iBroken]

You keep referring to him as your "BF" in this thread. Please tell me that you are breaking up with him?

 

I looked at your other threads and its clear that you are not a priority to him - or even an interest?

 

I hope you are ending things with him

[metrogirl]

You keep referring to him as your "BF" in this thread. Please tell me that you are breaking up with him?

 

I looked at your other threads and its clear that you are not a priority to him - or even an interest?

 

I hope you are ending things with him

 

She refers to him as her boyfriend because she won't break up with him the way she needs to.

 

OP, I too went back and looked at your threads. None of your threads had anything good to say about him, he has continued to lie, cheat, and play with your heart strings because you allow him to. Surely you aren't suprised at these latest events, he talks to his ex because he knows he can. He sleeps with her because he knows he can, he will continue to juggle the two of you because he knows he can. She clearly doesn't have a problem sharing him with you and it appears that you are okay with it as well.

 

Can you share with us, what is so great about this guy that he gets a golden pass to treat you like dirt?

[Huntress0527]

Sorry to hear, OP. He is dumb and she is psychotic. You don't need that drama in your life. Walk away from this toxic relationship with your head held high. You have the upper hand, you now know the truth.

[FathomFear]

I guess his ex won after all.

 

What exactly did she "win"? He sounds like a scumbag, lol.

[BellaDonna]

I guess his ex won after all.

 

She won herself a two-timer. You should leave them in their pile of drama and move on.

 

Try not to hate her because she owes you nothing. Why would she care what you think or feel? She's only out for herself. Your BF, on the other hand should care what you think and feel, and clearly he doesn't. He doesn't genuinely care about either of you and he is just playing you both. He is the one to be angry at, not the ex. He is the core issue and will probably be a jerk to any woman he dates. The faces may change but his behavior will remain the same.

[whatnow44]

This woman is living with another man. He wasn't there that night that I found them together. We all know each other and apparently he doesn't have a problem with them hanging out and playing pool.

 

My BF didn't have sex with her. I'm pretty sure of that because he is impotent because he drinks so much (great guy huh!) Anyway, he is my ex-boyfriend now. I packed his things and he is out of my house.

[BellaDonna]

Anyway, he is my ex-boyfriend now. I packed his things and he is out of my house.

 

That's the most important thing. I'm glad you are taking a stand and refusing to be disrespected and treated badly.

 

My BF didn't have sex with her

 

Even if he didn't, it's just a technicality. He's still cheating and choosing to spend his free time in the company of a lunatic that would go so far as to damage his car....all the while hiding it from you. They deserve one another.