Dougie_D Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 So after my second attempt to have a good time with a concert. (last time she slept) She whines about how she had to wake up early in the morning to go to work and she ends up sleeping again! I'm done with that girl. I've never been in a relationship. Never kissed or anything BUT I would LOVE to EXPERIENCE SEX! How can I find a girl that all we do is bang? I'm NOT joking anymore. This is getting stupid. I thought I could do the "relationship" thing, but I don't think it can work out. I'm 30 years old. Spending over 200 dollars on one girl and not even getting a "thank you" is a little rough. I should have gone to strip club! Link to comment
He2Him Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 And that's what you should do. Go to a night club, you'll probably spend even less than 100$ at some places. And just have sex. Since you're rather obsessed with having it, it's not healthy to seek it through a relationship, where you have to focus on other stuff too. Link to comment
whysoalone Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Pay $200 and get the hour! LOL Link to comment
TakingtheBlame Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Craigslist? OKCupid? I know many people who have found casual encounters through those sites. Just be careful and keep track of your kidneys at all times... Link to comment
jengh Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Well, I guess if you're that desperate, either hire a call girl or go to a night club and start hitting on the drunk girls... Link to comment
agatha Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 I must say I told you - she'd like to be doing it all, she's just not enduring it. nothing personal, I believe (unless she's a sociopath, which is very unlikely X p) if what you want is just sex, plz, hire a call girl. I'd have a hard time deflowering a 30yr old guy - too much responsibility. and even if the one-time-girl doesn't know, then she can say things you wouldn't like to hear (I have a friend who's kicked a guy from her apartment because he was unable to make her reach it). but honestly? I don't think you'll find the satisfaction you need there. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 So after my second attempt to have a good time with a concert. (last time she slept) She whines about how she had to wake up early in the morning to go to work and she ends up sleeping again! I'm done with that girl. I've never been in a relationship. Never kissed or anything BUT I would LOVE to EXPERIENCE SEX! How can I find a girl that all we do is bang? I'm NOT joking anymore. This is getting stupid. I thought I could do the "relationship" thing, but I don't think it can work out. I'm 30 years old. Spending over 200 dollars on one girl and not even getting a "thank you" is a little rough. I should have gone to strip club! I'm also in the same shoes as you. I'm 33 and I never had a gf, a relationship or kissed a girl. I know the feeling! It sucks! Link to comment
Dougie_D Posted June 23, 2011 Author Share Posted June 23, 2011 Oh....that's the ONLY way? I have to get some sort of "call" girl? That's prostitution, right? I don't want to ACTUALLY pay for it. I have morals. That's why I'm probably still a virgin, hahaha! Let me re-phrase my question. How does some GUY connect with a girl where all we do is have SEX? Basically, FRIENDS w/ BENEFITS? I don't really want a random girl. I just want a girl that when she wants some SEX, I'm available! Also, I've been on every DATING site you can think of. I have e-mailed SO many girls on OKcupid. My perentage is 3/100. We trade one or two e-mails back and when I ask to hang out, NOTHING. Link to comment
frree Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Hang on, you say wouldn't go to a protitute because you don't want to pay for it, and yet you're angry because this women you were seeing didn't give you any sex after you payed $200 on her. Sort of a contradiction. Link to comment
jengh Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Hang on, you say wouldn't go to a protitute because you don't want to pay for it, and yet you're angry because this women you were seeing didn't give you any sex after you payed $200 on her. Sort of a contradiction. Pretty much my thought... Link to comment
Dougie_D Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Huh???? I NEVER said I only wanted SEX from HER. I said I would like to EXPERIENCE it. I WANT a "FRIENDS w/BENEFITS" or a "BOOTY CALL" type of girl NOW. Prostitution is ILLEGAL. I don't do ILLEGAL things. That's terrible. My roommates just claimed that the AMOUNT of MONEY spent on this girl could land me at least a "BJ from a HOOKER". I wasn't looking for SEX from this girl right away. Everyone said that I SHOULD'VE GOT at least a HUG AND A KISS...but no!!!! I never even got a "thank you". Link to comment
frree Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 But there's no unwritten rule that she has to give you a kiss or thank you. You could spend $100,000 and she could tell you to get lost and there's not much you can do about it. If you're looking for * * * * buddies, there must be some sites specifically for that. They're like dating sites, you create a profile with some pics and find girls local to you. Link to comment
dashda Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 The formula for * * * * buddy(from what my friends say) is pretty much that you take a girl out on a date, invite her to your apartment, get her to have sex with you and then don't do any romantic snuggling or talking, just go eat or something after the sex. Then call her up a week later to hang out and again invite her to your place. If she's on board with the sex the second time too, you have yourself a * * * * buddy. I'm thinking friends with benefits is the same thing, just that you see her more often than the the * * * * buddy. So you need a female friend that is attracted to you physically(and whom you are physically attracted to naturally) and some guts to make a move on your female friend or to propose this kind of a relationship with her. Maybe getting drunk with just you and her would be a good place to suggest this. Cos if she's hating the plan you can always say "Damn Im wasted what the hell am I saying." or smth. To me both seem pretty hard to accomplish since most women don't like to feel cheap and want a real relationship. But there's bound to be some out there. Do some googleing for a more elaborate plan than the one I described. Goodluck mate. Link to comment
FathomFear Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 So after my second attempt to have a good time with a concert. (last time she slept) She whines about how she had to wake up early in the morning to go to work and she ends up sleeping again! I'm done with that girl. Can you clarify exactly what you mean? She slept through the concert...? I'm not exactly sure what's making you angry. Link to comment
Dougie_D Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 Concert #1 --- She starts to sleep during the concert Concert #2 --- She starts to sleep during the concert I don't know if she was tired, bored, or annoyed. Link to comment
Stay_home Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 How can I find a girl that all we do is bang? I'm NOT joking anymore. This is getting stupid. I thought I could do the "relationship" thing, but I don't think it can work out. I'm 30 years old. Spending over 200 dollars on one girl and not even getting a "thank you" is a little rough. I should have gone to strip club! For $200, you can come to my area of town and get the 2 for 2 deal. They even let you pickout which STD you'd prefer. Talk about a bang for your buck. Now that's a damn deal! Link to comment
dramallama Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Why did you take her to a second concert after she fell asleep during the first? Link to comment
Dougie_D Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 She had already bought the tickets to the second concert. I spent for dinner, T-shirts, beer, snacks, etc... Link to comment
timlondon Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 go to a night club and start hitting on the drunk girls... ... but if you're able to just go to bars and attract women sufficiently that they immediately have sex with you, you probably don't have the OP's problem. for the OP: it sounds like you feel entitled to a particular outcome as you've spent some money, and I imagine this comes accross to the girl you've taken out. I don't really understand the whole paying for stuff for someone you've never met before anyway. Maybe a concert is the wrong thing to do, take her somewhere fun, go to a few different places (doesn't have to be expensive, just interesting), add a bit of alcohol... Also if that's you in your avatar maybe a haircut, shave and some new clothes might help Link to comment
frree Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 She had already bought the tickets to the second concert. I spent for dinner, T-hirts, beer, snacks, etc... That's insane. Why spend that much on somebody? Why didn't you split the snack and beer money. Do a $100 each. You're biggest problem is you lack some backbone. Next time you go out with a girl you're interested in, say we'll go half each. If she won't pay for her own food and beer then leave her without. If she leaves then let her, because it means she wasn't interested in the first place and you saved yourself some bucks. Link to comment
RetroHoney Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 no shortage of loose women in the world. don't you see all the naked wannabe porn stars on the internet. shouldn't be that difficult to find 'just sex.' Link to comment
RoboDuck Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 So after my second attempt to have a good time with a concert. (last time she slept) She whines about how she had to wake up early in the morning to go to work and she ends up sleeping again! I'm done with that girl. I've never been in a relationship. Never kissed or anything BUT I would LOVE to EXPERIENCE SEX! How can I find a girl that all we do is bang? I'm NOT joking anymore. This is getting stupid. I thought I could do the "relationship" thing, but I don't think it can work out. I'm 30 years old. Spending over 200 dollars on one girl and not even getting a "thank you" is a little rough. I should have gone to strip club! Find the dirtiest trashiest club in town. Go there on a Friday and find the dirtiest trashiest woman there. Buy her as much overpriced club alcohol as she wants. After about her fourth drink, tell her to come back to your place with you. Nature will run it's course. If you selected the right woman, it will be even easier than that. You can always tell the type. Fake tan, big fake blonde hair, very little clothing, aviator sunglasses, high-heel shoes, doing everything she can to show off her boobs, thong underwear. Just look for one of those, fill her with booze and roll her out the door when you're done. Link to comment
katzenjammer Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 my previous ex whom i slept with on the third date spent ZERO dollars on me and just ASSUMED we would split the check for all three of those nights out. that's right, he treated me as his EQUAL. it showed me he respected me and ASSUMED that i could take care of myself, and i respected him for that. now, i've also dated guys like you, who try to impress me by spending $100 or $200 on me. i never see them after 1 or possibly 2 dates, and never allow them to touch me. but i enjoy utilizing the dollars they so arrogantly assume they can buy me with you say you have "morals" but from what i am reading you don't respect women if you are expecting to be able to buy non-prostitutes into bed. i personally have nothing against prostitution and suggest you hit up your local whorehouse immediately, so you can avoid having smart girls drain your wallet just for the fun of it. but if you'd rather waste your $$'s on false expectations, i'm free next friday! Link to comment
Iakasot Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Respect isn't just given, it has to be earned. You take that stance with men, and don't respect their sexuality, unless they keep it in a little box that's acceptable to you, and men have to earn respect with you. Why isn't it okay to only respect women if they've earned it? While I don't agree with spending money on women, I will defend the OP's right to show that he wants sex without it being socially unacceptable. It seems pretty widespread that a guy has to hide wanting sex, even though virtually all guys want it, to even have a small chance with a girl. If they don't, they risk being judged as "that's all he wants". You even get sick pleasure out of financially exploiting men's sexuality. Women are under no such pressure that totally impedes their success with men, and even risks them being financially exploited. I bet no girl that reads OP's post will be attracted to him, because he's shown that he wants sex. Link to comment
dali Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 No girl will be attracted to him because they will smell the desperation in him a mile away. There is a thing called being subtle. Link to comment
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