ex is EVERYWHERE lately!!!

[mattguy]

My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. we speak every few months here and there. I still have feelings for him. In the past few weeks i have

 

 

-Run into him at a bar 2 weeks ago , he was on a date

 

-was being served by his EX bf at a restaurant a few weeks ago

 

-ex txtd me while i was out on a date to tell me how ' no one gets him like i do, and how he misses how we would talk about our days together'

 

-Ran into his date from the bar at my gym, who proceeded to talk w me and we ended up taking a yoga class together

 

- saw my ex AGAIN at the bar

 

- found out my ex dated someone i recently had a date with.

 

-my ex has called to hangout the past 2 weekends and both times, he has stood me up because he has fallen asleep.

 

why in the world does he seem to be EVERYWHERE the past few weeks??? he MOVED and hour out of this city a year ago... is the universe trying to tell me something? eachtime something happens it really sets me back and makes it harder to move on

 

I really miss him, i miss our friendship, and the world we had together.

 

What can I do though? .....stop going out ?

[vivia12]

No you shouldnt stop going out,why should you? That means he's going to contact you and you may get back together,i always believe in signs

[rkw]

-my ex has called to hangout the past 2 weekends and both times, he has stood me up because he has fallen asleep.

 

 

What? He fell asleep despite making plans with you? Twice? Unless he has a serious disorder like narcolepsy that he can't help, this is a big sign saying "NOOO! don't go there!". If he was absolutley right for you, he'd be showing up promptly and with bells on.

 

Don't stop going out! Don't let him have any power or control in your life.