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hello everyone,this is my first post and was wondering how I can go about asking this girl out at work.I am 23 and work a part time job at a grocery store and I see simply a ton of beautiful women come and go but Im not the type to actually gawk and stare at women,reason being is because I

always have had women approach me and have never had trouble attracting women but there is this one girl who comes in and for the life of me she

always catches my attention.I do fairly well once in conversation but initiating it is a whole new thing for me?...I would like to say Hi or something

but don't know what to say as I don't want to come off as just another guy hitting on her in a rather rude way.


I have to say that being in a grocery store isn't the right setting I would like to engage in conversation but I really don't have much of a choice.

I'd like to point out that I am currently attending school for dentistry and have money saved (well inheritance) and I chose this job because of the

flexibility with school and the environment is really easy going.I am a conventionally good looking guy but what I think is my disadvantage with this

girl is my height....or her height?....You see I'm 5'9 and she at least has to be 6'1 maybe even 6'2.I have no problems dating a taller girl but

I think women prefer it if the guy were at least their height.


Still I want to ask her out but don't know how,I really like this girl and would appreciate it if you guys could give me some pointers.

Thanks in advance

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I would like to say Hi or something

but don't know what to say as I don't want to come off as just another guy hitting on her in a rather rude way.


So don't. And I don't know about you, but here in Australia, saying hi isn't usually seen as rude.


So go with a friendly smile and say hi, how ya going? I like your top or something to the similar. How are you today? You want to make her smile and specifically at you. Since you are working and are time constrained, I would suggest doing this each time you see her and then eventually ask her if she'd like to catch up for a coffee or something similar.

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Saying hi can work just fine because most guys think they need cheesy pick-up lines. You could have a conversation about foods she has in her kart or just give her a compliment and start the conversation from there.


Also, women don't care so much if a guy is tall (well at first they do) but it's a known fact that women like a man that makes her FEEL SAFE AND PROTECTED. That's what a women feels when she stands next to a taller guy. As a short/skinny/younger looking guy (5'3) I can say if a women isn't attracted to your height and you have a direct/tough exterior, they love it.

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Thank you guys!


KEYMAN-I will definitely try that approach,I guess it counts more HOW I say it right.I will start applying this everytime the next time I see her and hopefully by the

3rd I have an idea if she is into me or not to ask her out.Thanks.


STAND STRONG-I will hit the foods in her kart topic if she engages in more than just saying hi back to me.or by the 2nd or 3rd time I see her.I want her to be

able to tell that I'm interested in her but in a respectful way.much obliged Bro.


Anyone else have some tips?

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