need some advice

[MantraOtis]

We have been together for almost a year. Basically the relationship feels as though it's falling apart and I wish I could stop it, but I have problems trusting him. (He has lied right to my face several times.) I notice how he constantly checks out other girls while we are out in public. (He would say that I am paranoid because he just likes to look at everything.) I get jealous when he is around a certain girl and he doesn't care. I have explained to him several times that it bothers me when he sits next to her, so when we have an argument he'll go and do exactly that. (When it comes to Zodiac, they are a perfect match and me and him are not at all. I don't know if that's just me pulling the Zodiac card.)

 

He says that I am abusive in the respect that I am controlling. Although I don't care if he looks at porn but somtimes he'll watch certain movies around me and it bothers me. Is that crazy? He says that he will talk to who he wants, he will do what he wants. He said that if he is attracted to another girl he will talk to her if he feels like it. We live together....I work he doesn't. A few months into our relationship I discovered that he was sending sleaxy messages to a girl, (i.e. "You're piercing are very sexy." and "I wouldn't take you for granted." I contacted the girl and she was more willing to reveal their conversation to me than he was (of course.) When I ask him about it, he lies. Maybe I'm not cut out to be in a elationship at this point but what do you think?

[metrogirl]

I think he doesn't value the relationship as you do.

 

How long have you been taking care of him?

[Stay_home]

Check your horoscope again.

[sada88]

Uh, why are you with a guy that says, "if he is attracted to her, he'll go and talk to her?" That shows he has no respect for you and your relationship especially if you keep on bringing up how uncomfortable that makes you. I get that there has to be trust in a relationship but what he is doing seems to be going a tad overboard...