XButtonsx Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 He broke my heart and didn't care. He was quite horrible to me but it's his birthday coming up and I am a nice girl n still think about him everyday. I'm wondering should I just txt happy birthday or just leave it well alone? I have been in NC for 3 weeks. Would he even care if I txt or not? x Link to comment
hello678 Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Definitely don't text him. He dumped you, that means you are completely gone from his life. Link to comment
wlh22 Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 In my opinion, you should not text him. Use the energy and love on yourself... start moving on.... (i had a similar experience) Link to comment
mistojen Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 In my opinion, if you're asking us, it's because you already know that the answer is no, but you'd like a second opinion. Am I right? Link to comment
JonasWaingaro Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 He broke my heart and didn't care. He was quite horrible to me but it's his birthday coming up and I am a nice girl n still think about him everyday. I'm wondering should I just txt happy birthday or just leave it well alone? I have been in NC for 3 weeks. Would he even care if I txt or not? x NC and BU aside, that part is enough to say no. And no, he won't care if you don't and probably be uncomfortable if you do. Most dumpers are quite happy to not hear from the dumped again. Save a nice happy b'day for someone who will care. Link to comment
hello678 Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Agree. If they dumped you and have moved on they don't want to hear from you. I know you want to send it because you are still hung up about the issue. Link to comment
Blue Skittles Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 NO.... I got "dumped" (I hate that word!) I should say "released" ... or "set free" .. anyways, it happened over a week ago. My birthday was this week. He didn't even send so much as a text or an e-mail. So anyways, not worth your time!!!!! Link to comment
hello678 Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 NO.... I got "dumped" (I hate that word!) I should say "released" ... or "set free" .. anyways, it happened over a week ago. My birthday was this week. He didn't even send so much as a text or an e-mail. So anyways, not worth your time!!!!! Just use the word dumped. It doesn't necessarily have to carry any negative reflections upon you as a person, but it stops sugar coating what the other person did. Link to comment
babybees Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 NO. totally ignore him, and he'll be back giving you attentions later on. My ex texts me every occasion the calendar has. Starting Valentine's day to New Years day and I never reply to any of his greetings. He's the dumper. So let him feel the pain of losing you. lol... People are weird,,,the more you ignore, the more they will try to chase you back. I guess they are craving attention. It really depends how you break up. If you're still friends, then i guess that's fine if you want to send a greeting to him, but don't expect to get a reply from him. If you get it, then it's nice. But if you don't, then you shouldn't hold the grudge as well. -babybees Link to comment
dramallama Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 If he wanted you is his life as part of his close circle, you would be with him. But seeing as you're not, treat your ex's birthday like any other day. You would be lying if you said it was just an innocent text, because you DO have expectations tied to it, such as keeping the door open for reconciliation or making sure that your ex sees you as "nice". (We wouldn't want your ex thinking that you actually have a backbone, would we?) Link to comment
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