Guy at work - what to do ???

[quiddy]

I have been working with this guy since december. When i saw him for the first time i really liked him, but he never knew. I thought he was abt 25 , im 28 and it turned out he was 22 . I know, not funny haha So we work at the bar. One day abt 4 months ago his girlfriend came to see him and he introduced us to each other, then she popped in maybe 3 times more. They lived together and they met about a year ago. He is italian and you know how they are always playful and touchy even when they have girlfriends - horrible boyfriend material haha

anyway for abt last 3 weeks, this guy started asking if i had the same day off as him, maybe we would go for dinner or to the cinema, he recently moved to the different flat and asked if i wanted to see it, he lives now with 4 other guys i work with - all italians. He always comes and huggs me ( he did that before too) he asks me to kiss him and he always gives me a kiss on the cheek - like 10 times during the day when we work. He teases me, gave me a funny nickname and he always stands on my way so i need to touch him or talk to him to pass by. Last night , he pulled me into the glass washer room and asked me to give him a kiss. I like him and there's definitely chemistry there, but he is 7 years younger and i work with him so im not getting involved in things like that. It turned out he and his girlfriend broke up 3 weeks ago, his friend told me. So what do you think, is he just looking for a rebound?

[onemoretime]

Maybe you should let him know that you're interested but you don't want to start anything until he's been single for longer. Obviously it's up to you though you know the risks.

[neocorp]

Mentally normal people can't switch between girls this easily but when they do, everybody I know was looking for a rebound...

[quiddy]

the thing is that when he started flirting with me i didnt know that he didnt have a girlfriend anymore and was saying to him to leave me alone and that he was horrible and i felt sorry for his girlfriend. He never told me they broke up. So i still say to him that nothing is gonna happen in a playful way cos i take it all as teasing and playing while working but he doesn't hug other girls, he doesnt tease them and doesnt want to kiss them, so don't know if he is serious in flirting or not

[neocorp]

I believe what you're going through should be quite tempting and freakishly hard to resist such a thing right? So this thng can't live forever I mean this little tango; flirting like thing... You should arrange a meeting with him ask for whatever this is you're having and more importantly, be ready for every type of answers...