SPACEBOUND91 Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 me and my ex where best best friends and always wanted something to happen but i was in a relationship with someone for 2 years and i did love her but i could never deny my feelings with this other girl. but anyway 4 months ago yesterday me and the new girl got together after me and my ex ex broke up on valentines day this year. we became serious a bit too quickly slept together in 2 days but felt in love after a week (young and stupid i know) so anyway after a month people started telling me she manipulated me i didn't see it i thought we were perfect we were trying to sought a place for her to live cuz she was being kicked out. we stuck together through thick and thin and i did everything and anything for her but she did so much for me too about 2 weeks ago she moved out and she was scared stressed but free. that night she text her ex ex before me because me and him had been really good mates till i started dating his ex so she tried to fix the bod but he sent her some things that upset me and i told him to leave her alone. we argued about it and she told me she loves him still cuz he was her first but she lovs me more and we started to fall apart at the end of the week i though it was over and went on a very heavy night of vodka it didn wear of for 2 days and i did something i regret io cheated on my still then GF (although i felt single) the next day i told her the truth cuz i couldn't live with a lie she told me you where drunk its not the end of the world ( i kissed her and briefly put our hands down each others trousers. the sunday that followed she claimed i manipulated her and ended it the next day we met up and started kissing and it felt the same she told me she'd tell me the next day we could decide if we would try again she said yes but it felt like a lie on thursday we decided to not see each other im away in london currently and on monday we'd meet up and try to what we used to do later on that night she sent me a text say she couldn't do it but she still loves me its just too much stress right now. everyone who loves me has said good riddance dont contact her but i deeply miss her and everything about her she manipulates boys to extremes and i still want her back WHY??
RedDress Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 I don't understand how she is manipulative from what you've described. - You both got together very quickly and moved in together - She tried to set things right with your best friend - The best friend wasn't having it, tried to sabotage things - She told you that she still cares for him but not in the same way she cares for you - You cheated on her I mean... she's having problems getting over the fact that you cheated on her, dude! That's perfectly normal.
Tired Tiger Posted June 18, 2011 Posted June 18, 2011 RedDress pretty much hit the nail on the head here. As for the idea of possibly getting back together? Can't help you much there, except to say you should probably drop the attitude that she's manipulative and focus on taking some responsibility for your own behavior.
SPACEBOUND91 Posted June 18, 2011 Author Posted June 18, 2011 I don't understand how she is manipulative from what you've described. - You both got together very quickly and moved in together - She tried to set things right with your best friend - The best friend wasn't having it, tried to sabotage things - She told you that she still cares for him but not in the same way she cares for you - You cheated on her I mean... she's having problems getting over the fact that you cheated on her, dude! That's perfectly normal. its nothing to do with the cheating if it was i'd accept that but everything broke down before i cheated. i did not know she was manipulating my mum my step dad my real dad my teachers and all my friends saw it from the start they knew what she was doing she says shes * * * * ed up in the head becuase of how her father treated her i get that i looked after and comforted her i did anything and everything for her she would make me feel guilty cuz i didn buy her flowers every day make me carry her bags for her. convince me her mum was evil convince me to argue with my mum about why she coulldn't live with us " no we didnt move in together we talked about it" she claims she has nothing which is why i did everything for her she tried to repair her relationship with her ex and also one of my friends (same guy) he then sent her dirty pictures and told her he still loves her and she hid it from me i got angry when i found out and told him not to contact her i went to see him simply to tell him what he did was inappropriate and he said "of course it was i was trying to make her wet" and she got angry at me because i nearly punched him for that but then 2 weeks before she was trying to get me to smash his car up and knife him every time i guy looked at her large assets she'd tell me and cry and ask me to fight them thats manipulation! i never did anything wrong till the day i cheated then i did even more becuase of how bad i felt but shes cheated on her last 2 BFs one of them with me because i didn't know she was with him and we started kissing for hours before she ended it with him to be with me. she admitted to me she maipulated me out of my last relationship so she could have me. she befriended my then girlfriend to try and get me and she told me to my face if i tryed it with her when we both where in serious relationships she would have stilll slept with me or ended it with her BF to be with me. i have issues i am angry at times because i'm stressed looking after my dying mother whilst in full time education holding up a job and trying to support my GF and still have time to see my friends i have a brief past of recreational drugs had quit for 2 years and then she convinced me to buy some so she could try it and asked me to smoke it with her manipulation again but i still love her
SPACEBOUND91 Posted June 18, 2011 Author Posted June 18, 2011 I don't understand how she is manipulative from what you've described. - You both got together very quickly and moved in together - She tried to set things right with your best friend - The best friend wasn't having it, tried to sabotage things - She told you that she still cares for him but not in the same way she cares for you - You cheated on her I mean... she's having problems getting over the fact that you cheated on her, dude! That's perfectly normal. its nothing to do with the cheating if it was i'd accept that but everything broke down before i cheated. i did not know she was manipulating my mum my step dad my real dad my teachers and all my friends saw it from the start they knew what she was doing she says shes * * * * ed up in the head becuase of how her father treated her i get that i looked after and comforted her i did anything and everything for her she would make me feel guilty cuz i didn buy her flowers every day make me carry her bags for her. convince me her mum was evil convince me to argue with my mum about why she coulldn't live with us " no we didnt move in together we talked about it" she claims she has nothing which is why i did everything for her she tried to repair her relationship with her ex and also one of my friends (same guy) he then sent her dirty pictures and told her he still loves her and she hid it from me i got angry when i found out and told him not to contact her i went to see him simply to tell him what he did was inappropriate and he said "of course it was i was trying to make her wet" and she got angry at me because i nearly punched him for that but then 2 weeks before she was trying to get me to smash his car up and knife him every time i guy looked at her large assets she'd tell me and cry and ask me to fight them thats manipulation! i never did anything wrong till the day i cheated then i did even more becuase of how bad i felt but shes cheated on her last 2 BFs one of them with me because i didn't know she was with him and we started kissing for hours before she ended it with him to be with me. she admitted to me she maipulated me out of my last relationship so she could have me. she befriended my then girlfriend to try and get me and she told me to my face if i tryed it with her when we both where in serious relationships she would have stilll slept with me or ended it with her BF to be with me. i have issues i am angry at times because i'm stressed looking after my dying mother whilst in full time education holding up a job and trying to support my GF and still have time to see my friends i have a brief past of recreational drugs had quit for 2 years and then she convinced me to buy some so she could try it and asked me to smoke it with her manipulation again but i still love her
SPACEBOUND91 Posted June 21, 2011 Author Posted June 21, 2011 just found out she cheated on me first and has been having an affair for the last month so good riddence but reddress read better next time we never moved in together she was manipulative and horrible read the second post
tresqua Posted June 21, 2011 Posted June 21, 2011 just found out she cheated on me first and has been having an affair for the last month so good riddence but reddress read better next time we never moved in together she was manipulative and horrible read the second post People take their valuable time to give you good advice and you tell them to "read better next time". Nice. For what it's worth your posts are nearly impossible to read because you lack sentence structure and grammar and you do specifically say in your first post that she "moved out" so it naturally follows that she "moved in" first.
SPACEBOUND91 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 People take their valuable time to give you good advice and you tell them to "read better next time". Nice. For what it's worth your posts are nearly impossible to read because you lack sentence structure and grammar and you do specifically say in your first post that she "moved out" so it naturally follows that she "moved in" first. mate i wanted advice im dyslexic so don't have ago at me for my structure "valuable time" really?? i wanted help not stupid comments so just leave it alright i can't be bothered with pathetic email arguments goodbye
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