Deep thinker Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Ok so me and this guy were together for a little longer than a month but for a while i felt as If i was doing something wrong because we had religious differences and my parents didn't know we were dealing, so I decided to explain to him that I could no longer continue with our relationship even though I had major feelings for him. Before hand we had talked a little about religion and he had accepted my beliefs but he would also say that it would be hard in the future because if we ever had kids he would want them to follow his customs. we both always agreed on that but neither of us would take any initiative to end it. When i finally did, he agreed on it and he also said that his family wouldn't accept me. Did he just say that because he's proud? Because he seemed fine with it before until I said that my family wouldn't accept him then he said the same thing. He also said that he wouldn't be able to live with himself thinking that I gave up something so important for him. He said that he didn't want me to change who I am for him. Anyways, we had agreed on being friends but he would still comment things like "you're gorgeous" on my fb pictures which made it harder cuz I still had major feelings for him, so I kind of tried getting back together with him, but he refused and basically said that he didn't want his family to dishonor him for being with someone who doesn't have the same religion. We still tried being friends after that, but we'd both try to poke at eachother.. there would be times where I'd see him and act like I didn't and on facebook he would write things like.."Being single is amazing..I'm gonna have so much fun this summer with all these * * * * * es" which obviously was to piss me off. This continued until one day I tried saying hi to him at school and he acted like I was a bother, so I sent him a txt saying "so much for being friends" and his reply was "o I didn't even notice you were there." I didn't reply and I deleted him off fb and my phone. Now everytime I see him it's so awkward...the other day I was walking with my friend and he was coming in my direction and when he saw me, he got all nervous and crossed the street (I didn't see the need for that but ok). It seems like it still bothers him because he acts all weird when he sees me. A part of me still wishes we could be together, because I miss him but I feel like he doesn't care about me, because he let me go so easily and it seems so easy for him to ignore me. Today was officially the last day of school and the summer is comeing so I'm hardly gonna see him or his friends. But he lives around my area and there's chances of me running into him and I am gonna see him next year at school, Do you think I should message him to make peace?...Basically I would just say to have a good summer and that it's cool between us....I DON'T KNOW..WHAT DO YOU THINK? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snny Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 Anyways, we had agreed on being friends but he would still comment things like "you're gorgeous" on my fb pictures which made it harder cuz I still had major feelings for him, so I kind of tried getting back together with him, but he refused Based on this alone, maintaining a friendship with an ex is going to be impossible. Your feelings ABOUT him are still unresolved and he's giving you mixed messages. You either drop the romantic feelings or cut the contact/friendship ties. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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