Slept with a hot chick the last two nights but it really didn't help much...

[Live-N-Learn]

I do want to be nosy about one thing. You mentioned wrecking five cars. Are there some booze issues here that are biting you in the butt? I'm not some sort of Sobriety Nanny or anything...but backing off the partying (as you say you are doing) will definitely keep the drama down.Hang in there, man!

 

Yes they were all alcohol related. I was out with the ex every time and we got in a fight each time and I was really emotional and started drinking too much and drove home. I was in no shape to drive and started texting her or reading text and crashed. I never got a DUI but totaled 3 cars. This is just one example as to why I feel like such a fool. I did not learn from my lessons. I kept going back and hanging with her and self destructing. Even though I don't hang out with her I still have made some bad choices. At least drinking and driving is not one of them anymore.

 

Thanks for the encouragement my friend. It is hard to admit my stupidity. Deep down I know I am smarter than I have been acting.

[Lonewing]

If things with the girl and you are fine, and you're happier with her, well, maybe she isn't your type and maybe you haven't been looking for her because you don't think she's your type, but even if it's just a rebound and she's happy with this, I don't see any reason not to enjoy her company and whatever may come with it as you may.

 

Although if they are below you and this is behavior that has been detreimental to you before, it might be best to leave it.