Its getting rocky

[ohioboy]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9 months. And we barely fought at all ever. Recently she thought i cheated on her with her bestfriend which I didnt but i can see why she thought that. Ever since then we've been fighting everyday over stupid stuff, like bickering. I dont know if were both trying to pick fights on purpose for some reason or what. I just want her to trust me 100% again and everything to to back to normal. I feel like this is a phase, us fighting over nothing and overracting since we never had problems before.

[ohioboy]

Now when she does something I dont like or whatever she'll say "you just want something to complain about" Which I dont because if it wouldnt have happened I wouldnt have said anything" We are both jealous people which makes things worse. I don't want the relationship to end because of me overreacting to dumb stuff. Opinions?

[FathomFear]

You say "but I can see why she thought that". Can you elaborate on that?

[ohioboy]

Because me and her friend were texting and I said something I shouldn't have and her friend went along with it. It was all a joke but we talked about that and its over. Just after that it seems like we fight over nothing and I overreact and she complains.

[xiRoCb294]

Just make a conscious effort to let some small things slide... there's some battles that really don't need to fought. In a relationship, you've got to keep each other happy Just remember that!

[Chicklet]

Because me and her friend were texting and I said something I shouldn't have and her friend went along with it. It was all a joke but we talked about that and its over. Just after that it seems like we fight over nothing and I overreact and she complains.

 

 

Your reply is rather vague. Are you quite sure that she doesn't have a reason not to trust you anymore?