Bethany86 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 I’ve been dating a guy for a few weeks and things started going great. Until I received a message from one of his ex girlfriends ex boyfriends – His ex girlfriends ex boyfriend asked me if I had as many naked pics of my new date on my phone as his ex girlfriend did on hers…..Also told me they have been sleeping together for a while (while he has been sleeping with me). My new guy denied all of it and I have no idea what to think……..!! He is also a single dad with an ex wife – He is only 30!!!!! He also hinted to me last week that his career and son will always come first. Am I wasting my time here ? After the crap at the beginning – And after thinking about him being a single dad with an ex wife – The child and the career thing. I’m positive this will end in heartbreak anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oneironaut Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Sounds like a whole lot of drama, right off the bat. Regardless of whether or not it's true, about the naked pictures and sleeping together, I'd guess that for this to be happening so early on, it's an indicator of things to come. However, I could be wrong, and he could be a perfectly nice guy with some crazy friends. What does your gut tell you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oneironaut Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Oops, double post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 How did the ex girlfriend's ex boyfriends even get your number? And if you have only been dating a few weeks, how would they even know your name? That's the first thing that crossed my mind. Yes, sounds like drama to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bethany86 Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 I have no idea what my gut is telling me…I have no idea what to think!!!!!! Not only is there ex wife and child baggage, there’s ex girlfiends ex boyfriend baggage. I have come out of a 9 year relationship myself and this is the only guy I have trusted since then…………..I’m lost. Thse messages were not over the phone. It was over facebook, my profile and his profile are completely public. I asked the same thing. The only response I got was that “This place is a small town, everyone knows everyone” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oneironaut Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Ah...in that case, run away. Fast. This IS an indication of things to come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elcie Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Unless you thrive on drama, complicated situations and probable heartbreak, I'd say walk away, while you have the chance, and don't look back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouseno4 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Good to see the girls saying the usual stuff. Proof or it isnt true. Gut feelings dont count. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lanyru Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 I'd back out. That's just way too much drama early on and it seems like his past is still following him around. If you decide to stay with this guy, it's gonna be a long bumpy road. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ariel85 Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 Are you sure that wasn't really his ex-wife/ex-girlfriend contacting you to scare you off? It makes no sense why a guy would contact you if he's an ex. And doesn't sound like something a dude would do. It's got chick drama written all over it. But, his kid will always come before you - that much is a given. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldenoughtoknow Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 I wouldn't take much stock in what his ex girlfriends ex boyfriend has to say. You don't know him, and you don't know his motivation. Just keep your eyes open in the future. Whether you want to deal with his ex wife and child baggage is the real issue to consider. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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