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So, lately I have been feeling blah... and feeling several things. There is no one central problem. My life is all good but all over the place at the same time.


I think my biggest issue is I am soooo alone right now and feel no love. It even sucks to say this but I am on 3 years since my first and only love/gf left me and I still feel stuck with that. Since then, I finished school, took a job and then moved to another city for a new job. Since I have moved thrice in the last 3 years, I feel I know no-one around here and have zero social life.

Also, I am finding it so difficult to think about a love life (not that I have anything going on right now anyways ... *shakes head*) with anyone really. And I am not getting any younger.

This is also starting to affect my physical and mental health I think as my life has pretty much become going to office and coming back.

But the last couple of years have been so alone that I am starting to loose motivation for ANYTHING. Even for working out, I can't seem to find motivation from within.


On the financial front (if at all follow my posts), I have been really good in planning and keeping tabs on expenses in the last year or so bringing me to a position that I really am happy about.


It is in terms of relationships, I feel so alone and at this age I find it so difficult to make new friends/relationships.


I know my post is a bit all over the place, but would be great if you folks can help out. Thanks for reading ENA !!

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Dude. As Marley says, Get up. Stand up. Don't give up da fight.

Come on! Do you have any hobbies? Perhaps learn to play the drums? or any instrument at all??

Enroll in a boxing class, keep that adrenaline pumpin!

Set a goal for the next 6 months, before 2012.

sign up for link removed? Find the same interests in your city...it's not a dating site, most folks are looking for friends to hang out with and do stuff.

There's always activities and there's no pressure. Most of the time, the activities they set-up is pay your own type of thing.

All the best.


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I hate to say it but I've experienced exactly the same things you've mentioned down to the having a bf leave me 3 years ago so I understand how it feels. I know everyone's advice is "join link removed" or "find activities you enjoy," however I have done all of that to the point of it becoming pretty boring so I won't mention that stuff. If you want to talk, let me know.

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