Miss.Love2u Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 What really nailed it in my head that he was so gone and that I wanted him out of my life for good.Was, a few weeks ago we were on the phone and I was at my friends house he was getting off work and when he had called he seemed happy told me he loved me I said the same to him but I also said I was tired of all these games and we really needed a change if we were going to be serious we needed to step up and do things right. He became extremely mad and said that he was tired of all this B/S and that he is a grown ass man. And that he didnt need me to be his mother. He said he really its happy with me any more and that he was tired of me and I am BAD GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE I WONT PUT SOME BILLS IN MY NAME AT HIS APPARTMENT(I DONT EVEN LIVE THERE) He said that he was tired of me telling him he needs to handle his business and that he is a grown ass man(OK WHEN YOU DONT HAVE LIGHTS,GAS,AND WATER IN YOUR APPARTMENT. I THINK YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT DOSENT MEAN PUT BILLS IN MY NAME) And he makes 2,000$ a month. I always say where in the hell is you money going.(And its not going to me) He called me every name in the book you name it he said it. Then what topped the cake he said that I was already REPLACED with someone else and haug up the phone on me. Yeah I called back and he did the same thing I called again no answer that time. So I stopped calling and ten mins later he called and said that he was just mad and I said whatever. Then he had the nerve to ask me to come give him a (jump off, because his car just cut off on the highway) I said well I cant because (I HAVE BEEN REPLACED SO CALLED WHOM EVER YOU REPLACED ME WITH TO HELP YOU AND I HAUG UP THE PHONE IN HIS FACE AND WHEN HE CALLED BACK I DIDNT ANSWER. LATELY HE HAS BEEN CALLING LIKE CRAZY AND I REFUSE TO ANSWER THE PHONE AND NOW THAT HE STATED I HAVE BEEN REPLACED I FEEL I CAN FINALLY LET HIM GO WITH OUT ANY HURT.ONLY SMILES OVER HERE. SO WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK SHOULD I HAVE LEFT HIM ON THE HIGHTWAY STUCK.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackhawks1287 Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Yeah... * * * * him...from everything you have posted let him sit there by himself whether he has someone or not. BLOCK HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE ALREADY. He is trying to persuade you in a very negative way to keep you in his life. This is the type of guy I would love to smack accross the face. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LP90 Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 I think you did the right thing. Most of the time when people say something out of anger its the truth. He just realized what he did after and tried to change the story at which point the damage was already done and it was too late. I wish i paid attention to those signs more closesly in my relationship, wouldve saved a whole hell of a lot of pain now. He showed you his true self, now its up to you to decide if thats someone you are willing to be with. If you know your are done, then stay NC and try to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 I thought that you had already broke up with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faithful14 Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 you did the right thing. good for you. you can do a lot better than that chump. NEXT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss.Love2u Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 Heartgoseon- I did end things with him about a month ago then he came with the baby I can change thing and I wanted to believe that but as you can see and so can I now I was only tring to fool myself about who he was. And I thank you all for the comments I WAS THINking THE SAME THINGS. Its been a few weeks now since I tried to give him his one millionth chance. But now thats over im staying strong and evening seeing a few guys not like that but just to hangout with and make some new friends. since he has been gone I got my car fixed and got a new job it seems that life is much easier when he is not around (he is like a black cloud and full of miser) im more happy my face is clearing up and now im just looking forward for a better life just me and the only man that matters in my life my son.THANK EVERYONE FOR BEING WITH ME THROUGH THIS WHOLE ORDEAL. I wont let you guys down but most important I wont let myself and my son down this......I love you all.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverbirch Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 What a creep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elcie Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 I laughed so much.....his car broke down after he told you all that stuff......and then he expects you to rescue him....what a nerve!!! Talk about instant Karma!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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