Going Out/ help?!!!!

[Pny]

So my friend called me this evening and suggested to me that we should go to this big party this weekend, problem is my ex may be in there but the place is so big that i may never see him. for the whole night. I do want to go/ havent been out in a while/ but im am afraid that He may start saying im stalking him here even though I was going there first help

[Meriem]

Don't go! go to another party or go watch a movie or just do something else, just completely avoid anywhere he might be at, you'd be uncomfortable in the party anyway knowing that your ex might be somehwere there around you, that's just what I think

[Eocsor]

Go to another place. Seeing him, even briefly will set you back.

[Pny]

That is what i think too. But when do i get to do the things that I like to do when he is always at the same places that I frequent. I am ready to get back to life. I am so tired of sitting in the house. This is beginning to be a headache and I dont want it to control my life anymore. he already feels that he has all the power.

[Eocsor]

Try new places. I had to do that after my breakup. it was fun and not as nerve wracking as wondering if the ex would show up.