Irishguy1125 Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 My girlfriend just broke up with me yesterday after being together for about 7 months, she told me she didn't feel like we were bf and gf and just really good friends, I am her bestfriend and she cares about me so much, etc, you know the deal. Today i get a text from her saying "Good luck on your exam tonight!" As i know, that means more than just what she said. Is she missing me? I sent her a text back a while later saying "Thanks for the words of encouragement, i hope you know i care about you a lot but i need some space to process things" then she wrote back "Alright, that's understandable" where do I go from here???
jumper11 Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Do nothing, go NC to clear your head, then gauge it from there. I needed like 2 months NC but my relationship was almost 6 yrs, everyone is different. Don't fool yourself when you're not ok as an excuse to contact, you'll know when you are. In time you'll see the meaning of her messages, good or bad.
italiannmf24 Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Where do you go from here? Easy. No Contact. Keep on doing you and don't contact her at ALL.
Irishguy1125 Posted June 15, 2011 Author Posted June 15, 2011 Yeah you're right, i feel like she wants to transition to being friends right now and that's not what I want at all. Her birthday is on monday and I will be for sure seeing her next week because we have a group planned thing we have to attend so idk what exactly to do.
LIzardKing Posted June 15, 2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Yea I would just ignore this. Dont assume anything. I would go NC and stay NC. Unless you want to be her "friend", which is a joke. Dont play the game bro. You will just be wasting your time. Chris
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