Are my nerves showing?

[daisy123x]

Me & my new partner have been together for two months now, we started having a sexual relationship three weeks into the relationship but since being together we have only slept together three times. I have only had one other serious relationship in the past and a few little flings, but with my new partner im alot more nervous an i dont know why. I do little things to turn him on like kiss his neck rub the top of his thigh.. but as far as sex ive never done anything sexual to him. Im worried that hes pickin up on me being so nervous an its being a big turn of.. or weather he just doesnt want to have sex. But we have had alot of opportunities! plus with my ex partner, we slept together alot an it would not take much for me to do before he would be turned on. My current partner it does seem to take alot. An the longer im leaving not doin anything apart from sex the more nervous im getting about doing anything else. Because of this im startin to worry he doesnt fancy me that much an thats why hes not wanting to have sex with me.. but i dont know im confused. Has anyone got any good advice on how else i can turn him on an how to try to calm my nerves??

[jumper11]

It's just that uneasy time in a relationship.. it should pass. Were you very comfortable sexually with your ex? I was uneasy around my current guy but sexually comfortable in general so that fixed everything.. Seriously daily I feel like we're done, or whatever, not because I'm crazy but because I am at the 2 month mark too and things change, behaviours change, etc at this time..

 

I'd just try to relax and let it happen.. the more you think about it the worse you'll feel and he could be picking up on it. I'd just do normal things I don't see how that can't turn him on? Or maybe he feels similarily?

[daisy123x]

No with my ex partner I was really comfortable.. Thats what i dont understand. He was my first sexual partner thoughh i dont no if thats what the difference is. And we were both eachothers first's. I havent had many sexual relationships since; but sex doesnt ever seem scary to me when it does come about. So i dont understand why with my current partner i feel like this. I dont think its a issue at all to him after a drunken conversation an finding out he has had a lot more sexual partners than me i also worry about gettin compared an stuff.. i dont know im hoping its just nerves that are guna pass SOON because im worryin that maybe this could be why wer not sleeping together.

[jumper11]

It could just be nerves.. I'm very comfortable with myself sexually yet would heat up like fire around him and got weird and its because I found him too attractive, lol. You've only slept with each other 3 times so it could just be the anxiety.. unless you have anxiety often I'd say its just that and nerves. You havent been dating long.