-Sanguine- Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 ...how long did it take for you to fall in love with your SO? Are you the type to fall in love quickly or does it take you a long time? Link to comment
curious11 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Usually it takes a lot for me to fall in love. But the woman I've been seein for the past 2 years... I fell in love the moment I saw her. I jut waited about Link to comment
curious11 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Correction* I just waited about 2 months before saying it, and it was funny because we both said it like we had been saying it forever Link to comment
reidqa Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Me, 1 hr 1 day kiss 1 mth engagement 4 months married That was 30 yrs ago. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 The day we met we were very awe struck of each other. He said he had wanted to meet me for over a year. I had noticed him the year before(we met at university). He wanted to meet me so he interupted a conversation I was having with someone else and I turned to glare at him and was totally awe struck at the beauty of his eyes. This loud voice in my head told me "this is the person you will marry." I realize that sounds insane but it is true. When we actually talked about love I do not remember because it was over 20 years ago but I do remember that moment we met vividly. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 The day we met we were very awe struck of each other. He said he had wanted to meet me for over a year. I had noticed him the year before(we met at university). He wanted to meet me so he interupted a conversation I was having with someone else and I turned to glare at him and was totally awe struck at the beauty of his eyes. This loud voice in my head told me "this is the person you will marry." I realize that sounds insane but it is true. When we actually talked about love I do not remember because it was over 20 years ago but I do remember that moment we met vividly. That's really intense! It's amazing that you thought that and then married him. Wow. If the relationship I'm in works out the way I hope it will, then in 20 years from now I will be saying the same thing as you. Because I have that voice in my head every time I am with him telling me is the one. I am trying not to take it too seriously because I know that things can change. On the other hand, things just feel so right and like you said - we were also very awe struck of each other from the moment we met. He had been riding my bus for over a year and I always had a little crush on him but we never spoke or anything. Then I went out to a bar one random night (in a huge city, I might add) and he was the first person I saw.. I had to go up to him and we've seen each other almost every day since then. He has told me he's looking for the real thing. This would probably scare most off, but that's what I want, too. Link to comment
mhowe Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 my bf, who had been a friend for 6 yrs., told me that he fell in love with me before he asked me out! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Sometimes you know and you know instantly. Sometimes it is not so clear. Usually though if your gut tells you something I listen to it. Link to comment
Firiel Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I've only been in love once... I told my husband I loved him after about three months of dating. In my previous relationship, I dated the guy for nine months and never seriously considered saying, "I love you." Something was different with my husband for sure. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 Sometimes you know and you know instantly. Sometimes it is not so clear. Usually though if your gut tells you something I listen to it. Yeah, right now I'm just trying to decide if it's still just cause everything is new and fun or if my instincts are actually right. I guess only time will tell. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 I've only been in love once... I told my husband I loved him after about three months of dating. In my previous relationship, I dated the guy for nine months and never seriously considered saying, "I love you." Something was different with my husband for sure. Yeah, I think sometimes people just know. I feel really silly because I've only been dating this guy for a month, but every time I am with him the words I love you are seriously on the tip of my tongue. It was never like that with my ex and I was head over heels for him right off the bat. Link to comment
ToF Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I think it took me about four days to tell my current S.O. that I love him. On our first date, I wasn't too impressed by him for the first couple of hours. It was the usual "dinner" setting and I was uncomfortable. But then we took a walk around our university that night and we were pretty much inseparable after that. Four days later he said he could see it in my eyes, and that if I wouldn't say it, he would. So he did! I guess I'm not very good at hiding my emotions. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I felt as though I was falling in love with my SO after a month of dating. I eventually told him within 2 months, at that time, he told me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. For once in my life, I actually wasn't scared by the thought of that. I was a commitment-phobe prior to him, but it's true what they say, sometimes it just takes the right person to come along to ease your mind. Link to comment
thejigsup Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 With me, sometimes it has been instantaneous and other times it took awhile. The two men I have loved the most were like that. One I fell in love with the first time I looked into his eyes. The other took a few months. I loved them both very deeply but the one that love took its time with lasted much longer. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 I find it really interesting to hear most of you fell in love very quickly. I thought I was maybe jumping the gun a bit, but I guess if that's how I feel there's not much I can do about it Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Some people are cautious - which there is nothing wring with - while some go with their emotions more. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 Some people are cautious - which there is nothing wring with - while some go with their emotions more. Agreed. Either way is fine. I won't say anything about how I feel until I am 100% sure. Link to comment
flaminghair81 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 We had 6 days of emails/chats/texts before he finally convinced me to come to his place for dinner. I had fallen in love in the first hour I was there. The next night I went over again and fell even further. He went out of town for 5 days the next day, he asked me that first night if I believed in love at first sight. When he got back, he told me that he fell in love with me when he opened the door the first night. Its been almost 6 months now. Link to comment
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