delicous Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 The title says it all pretty much. Let me explain... I am not a virgin and havn't been for years however..I had my first climax full body orgasm the other day and it wasn't with his penis inside of me. It was through the gspot stimulation. It was like nothing ive ever felt or experienced. If you listen when he does it, it makes this wet feeling like your pushing your finger through water and right after that I came 7x while his finger was still inside of me a few times and few times while it was not inside of me. The 8th time I water falled again. So when I say I "came" I mean...It was like rain. Every guy ive ever been with told me im a "squirter" and never really believed them until this man. My problem is all of these times cumming, squirting and losing myself...My muscles felt very very sensitive and tender. My vagina felt exceptionally dryer than usual and since then i have not been able to do it myself. Only he can do it and thats a problem because he is not someone I wish to see over and over again. I would however like to teach the partner I am interested in staying with to do it... Anyways I noticed dryness feeling and some smell of "pee" after I came and I smelt it on his finger and mine and immediately washed up. But two days later I started smelling frothy, like fish..ewwwwww I know but yeah, so I bathed myself very well with soap and water and dryed to keep extra clean for the days being but...It just got worse and I felt a stinging deep inside my vagina..So I went to the doc and just found out I have bacteria vaginosis. She told me this is something that can be treated and perscribed me medicine for it or whatever, im going to pick up my prescription in a little bit...Right after I finish eating my pizza and posting on here. Anyways, she told me that its not always caused by sex, it can actually just happen because of what your eating "dietary wise." She also told me not to put soap in there when I clean no matter how clean it feels, itll interrupt the Ph level in the vagina. So thats good to know, but is it okay to use wipes? Like baby wipes or something?... And any girls gone through similar and can help me explain to my sexual partner how to make me cum? And also was wondering if any of you ladies have a vaginal cleaning routine Like...do you take anything to keep the ph level normal that you can purchase over the counter? Is there specific wipes or soaps you use, foods you eat to maintaine a healthy moisture level inside of there lol? Thanks for reading, hope I can get some help in this department, thank you! Link to comment
scarlett27 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 yuk , are u sure u dont have some kind of std ? and this was far too graphic sorry Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Don't put any wipes, soap, douche or water in vagina. Your vagina is very sensitive and all those chemicals can upset the ph balance and cause issues. Your partner also needs to be sure he has clean nails when he fingers you. If he doesn't and scratches you, it can cause an infection. Your vaginal moisture is regulated by how much water you drink, drink more water and your vagina will produce more moisture. Squirting can dehydrate you faster, so you should be drinking water every time you have sex or orgasm. When I'm dehydrated, sex can be dry, but as soon as I drink some water, no problem. Lubes can be used during sex if you feel dry even after drinking water, but make sure you only use water based lubes with condoms. Avoid flavored lubes as they are more prone to causing problems with skin and vaginal health. Link to comment
delicous Posted June 13, 2011 Author Share Posted June 13, 2011 scarlett, no im not sure, I did get testing about 3 weeks ago and came up with out any. I havn't had any unprotected sex since then. I had a uti though and that sucked. Carnelien, do you have any tips on climaxing and teaching the man how to do it? Im not planning on having sex obviously for like 8 days but...I am still curious for after everything is healed and back to its normal Ph level. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 I kinda dont want to comment on the vagina issue (obviously) but you might want to ask your partner to try the other entry point . This is the best way a guy can cause g spot stimulation and cause the other orgasm to trigger - which is the 'watery' orgasm for a female. Now, how to break this idea to a guy... yep not a clue. Sorry. Oh kinda thought it was obvious but you shouldnt play two holes on the golf course at once. Either one or the other at a time. Pretty sure its obvious why. Link to comment
scarlett27 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 get back down the gum clinic x Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 get back down the gum clinic x Wow had to google that. Never heard it called that before. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 scarlett, no im not sure, I did get testing about 3 weeks ago and came up with out any. I havn't had any unprotected sex since then. I had a uti though and that sucked. Carnelien, do you have any tips on climaxing and teaching the man how to do it? Im not planning on having sex obviously for like 8 days but...I am still curious for after everything is healed and back to its normal Ph level. You have to be familiar with your body. Start by fingering yourself and finding your g-spot. It will be pretty obvious when you feel it. Then the next time you are with a guy, whisper to him, "lets see if you can find my g-spot". Then you need to talk him through finding it, deeper, more pressure, right there, all that stuff. You have to talk to him. I'm with a guy right now that is obsessed with my g-spot, so he's all for guidance and wants to see how many times he can get me to squirt. He found a video online about stimulation of the g-spot, the technique it showed was horrible for me, it hurt. I told him, he stopped, we tried other things. Link to comment
delicous Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 Carnelianbutterfly: I do finger myself quite often and I have made myself cum but this was through playing with my clit and reaching inside and outside of my vaginal area...I also watched porn pre- masturbation. Girl on Girl got me most excited, but the guy on girl is pretty hot too... Anyways...Yeah so Ive gotten myself to do it but explaining it to a man is a whole other ball game. Its like my Gspot moves or something..It felt like this guy knew what I was thinking while he was inside of me and I didn't have to say a thing accept moan my little heart out. Whenever he got inside of me, he went in on an angel that felt inside quite nice and it felt like I needed to pee when he cornered this spot inside of me which caused me to release that pee feeling.... I know it wasn't pee because I peed like 5 minutes prior....It just felt really great and soaked my bed lol. Any guys very experienced on here? I need some advise on how you can really get that gspot cornered and release..... Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 You just explained it well enough to get a guy started. Tell him to go in at an angle and then have him search around. Watch some porn before hand, play around with him, have fun. Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I don't really have any advice for this thread -- since CB has pretty much covered it. I just wanted to express how much this thread points up how much I appreciate men and all they are up against. We have so many tiny crevices and "buttons" and "spots" that if you're just not quite there, it's like the kung fu saying, "An inch off -- a mile off." Getting a woman off is like hitting a marble on the neighbor's roof, from accross the street, with a pistol. Getting a man off is like hitting an elephant's butt with a dart standing at like 7 feet away. Link to comment
delicous Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 Haha, thats pretty true. Some men are pretty hard to get off though... Getting us women definetly is toughter though. Link to comment
newmother1 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 sorry don't mean to sound naive or anything but what is a spot? i've never had vaginal orgasm just the clitoral one so if there is a way to get the latter i'm all ears. plus i have a dry vagina and sex hurts a lot sometimes. yes we use lubricants but for once i would like to enjoy sex without getting out the trusty old tube Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 The g-spot is a place along the front wall of the vagina about 2 inches inside the vaginal canal. The g-spot is fairly small, so it can take time to find. Sometimes it feels bumpier than the surrounding tissue or spongy. Pressing on it should produce a feeling like the urge to urinate as well as intense pleasure. Don't be afraid of the feeling to urinate, keep going. Depending on what works for you, repeated thrusting into that spot or firm pressure, which ever, it can cause fantastic orgasms. Some women will ejaculate, also know as squirting, its liquid that is released when they orgasm. Sometimes there can be uncontrolled muscle spasms with the orgasm. Link to comment
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