Oups Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Hi! In a few month, I will be 30 years old and I never had the pleasure of having a bf not even a 1st kiss! Something must be wrong! lol When I was a teen up to about 21-22, I wasn't looking for it ( to buzzy having fun with friends) but seen, noting happen! Some may say to hight standard! you tell me: (tall because I'm, educated, looks like a man! (skinny boyish kind of men...not for me) and outgoing (cause i'm shy)) that's all I ask for! Objectively, physically, I'm good looking tall(5'10") and yes I'm big(about queen latifah size). So someone tell me please what wrong thk Link to comment
scarlett27 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 darling u need to get out , go to bars , speed dating , meals out , salsa classes , college courses , local events , pub quizes all these areas are perfect for meeting someone , ur prob better off - i have had men all my life and they have caused me nothing but tears , heartache , worry and pain lol xx Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 What Scarlet said. If you really want this, you cant expect it to land in your lap. Meals-on-wheels didnt turn into Males-on-wheels. It is no different for guys. If you want something, you have to spend the time to work for it. Link to comment
scarlett27 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Mouse i love u u speak so much sense lol xx Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Mouse i love u u speak so much sense lol xx Find me a girl in real life who says that to me. And actually means it! (been told that a few times) Link to comment
scarlett27 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Find me a girl in real life who says that to me. And actually means it! (been told that a few times) lol u are better off on ur own trust me lol xx Link to comment
Oups Posted June 13, 2011 Author Share Posted June 13, 2011 lol! tnk! I've try all of it except speed dating and meals out (? we don't have this were I live) but I can't do drunk's and went to so many "single parties" but apparently in Europe, those parties are for single women attending! 1 men for 10 girls and usually he is there with his girlfriend to accompany her single best friend so she have someone to talk to if the party is lame! I think I should move to the US or Canada! lol Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Ive been alone for 10 years. Im no stranger to such things. I find the companionship of a dog (yes it sounds terrible) just as good as a nice girlfriend. Without the lies. Hell if i want company that actually talks, i spend time with my mates. Link to comment
scarlett27 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 lol! tnk! I've try all of it except speed dating and meals out (? we don't have this were I live) but I can't do drunk's and went to so many "single parties" but apparently in Europe, those parties are for single women attending! 1 men for 10 girls and usually he is there with his girlfriend to accompany her single best friend so she have someone to talk to if the party is lame! I think I should move to the US or Canada! lol oups u have to keep trying dont give up can u advertise in teh paper where u are ? join some local groups / clubs etc Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Sorry. Didnt mean to derail the thread. Link to comment
biffbangpow Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I could only offer that I feel like I'm in the same boat even though I sort of had a relationship once before that left me heartbroken. It's difficult to find decent people for sure. Link to comment
RetroHoney Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 I am the same as you except one year older and have resorted to just being content the way I am, because frankly it's pretty obvious it ain't happened by now, it never will. You are probably being pegged as either:1. overly religious 2. a closet lesbian 3. an emotional basketcase/headcase. Most guys will not like the virginity thing at your age, but they also do not like the lack of adult relationships, sends up red flags all over the place to them, in turn causing them to choose more "appropriately experienced" women in the end with seemingly less baggage. Link to comment
Wellrounded Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 First and foremost I would have to say any real man will not care about you experience all that much. And not to be mean but men think very differently then women on a whole. Many times we men get yelled at because we were asked to do something and we never heard it that way. For instance when a woman asks a man" Can you take out the trash?" Most men answer yes because they see it as being asked if they are capable of taking the trash out and they are, however if they are not think hard about it that is all that will come of it. Where as if you say, "Will you take out the trash?" you will be more likely to get the answer yes but actually get the trash taken out. Anyway sorry for getting off topic. I just wanted to point out that men use a different thought process then you typical woman. Link to comment
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