I don't know what to do....

[TeamBreezy]

Okay, so this guy claims he really loves me and I love him too, but he won't ask me out, I constantly give him clues that are really obvious, but he just avoids the topic and goes on with something else. He says he has commitment issues, but he's never been in a relationship, so how can he be afraid of commitment. Is he just pulling crap on me? He's asked me out on dates before but never shows up, doesn't talk to me for a few days and then comes back acting like nothing ever happened and he's done nothing wrong. At this point I have no idea what to do. Am I being whiny? Should I just keep talking to him or tell him how I feel? Or just ultimately move on. Help me please!

[rc10]

Tell him how you feel - don't let him change the topic. He either answers the question or you go. Don't let him walk all over you like that.

[princessinblue]

Tell him how you feel - don't let him change the topic. He either answers the question or you go. Don't let him walk all over you like that.

It does seem like he is walking all over you. Just tell him how it is because he doesn't sound like great relationship material if hes just going to duck out on you.

[laura40]

I'm worried about the: 'he's asked me out on dates before but never shows up, doesn't talk to me for a few days and then comes back acting like nothing ever happened and he's done nothing wrong' part.

 

If someone loved you, would they really do that? I would move on

[oldenoughtoknow]

Repeatedly standing someone up doesn't indicate commitment issues. It indicates he's a jerk. Move on.