deff808 Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 She is a intern at my working place. I think she will only be here for maybe 5-6 more weeks, i think she will have another job somewhere else. Another Hotel. Anyway, before when i use to go to work. She is very shy, no hi or bye. Maybe past 3-4 months or so. I tend to break the ice recently the past few weeks, and ask her where is she from? Where did you apply? Just work related things. What did you do on your days off? etc... She has a english accent, she is from germany. After that, whenever i come into work. She always smiles at me, or say HI. Bye. Thank you for helping... Or i always catch her looking at me or whenever she is with another girl talking near by, They go quiet, when i past by. I always notice now, the past two weeks. She been dressing a little more classy and she always check her make up. People have been noticing that to. She would always come up to me and ask for help instead of other co-workers. In that gap time, i had no clue if she had a bf or gf. So i kept my work boundaries up (before i get fine with sexual harassment or something) and respect. One of my co-workers ask her, she said she broke up with her bf, maybe 1 month ago i believe. So i was like great! I found out last week. Back to the topic Stupid me, instead of asking for her number, i ask her for her email address, i told her i had some ideas and i'll help you threw out some things. She gladly gave it to me, last night. I'm a chef in a hotel, and she is a f&b manager. And she loves tasting my specials, everyone loves good food right! Ugh! Still hope! What do i do? Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 Well you know she likes good food so why not ask her if she wants to grab a bite after work? Tell her you know this hole in the wall that has great ..., would she like to join to keep you company. You are the Iron Chef, go get her man.. Link to comment
deff808 Posted June 12, 2011 Author Share Posted June 12, 2011 Should i tell her in person or email? I don't want to ask her in front of anyone at work, plus i don't think i can break the rules at work. Plus everyone loves gossip at work!! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 Don't do it via email, how about towards closing? Nobody is going to think much of it, its quite common to go out after work for a bite to eat or drink. Link to comment
Stay_home Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 Should i tell her in person or email? I don't want to ask her in front of anyone at work, plus i don't think i can break the rules at work. Plus everyone loves gossip at work!! Pull her off to the side away from the ears. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 From what you have said, i would say most likely she is interested. But yeah, wait until after work, as in right after you and her finish. Link to comment
deff808 Posted June 12, 2011 Author Share Posted June 12, 2011 I wont see her till this Wednesday Don't send any email yet? Work related meaning I don't know how i'm gonna make a open line, and get her interested. Actually giving me her number... Or do i give her my number.... I have to find her by a hostess stand or something, or away from everyone! Link to comment
deff808 Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 Tomorrow is the day she comes to work... I don't know how i should say it, if she denies me. I gonna have to see her everyday, and have the awkward momment! Link to comment
mindreader Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Ask her in person, if you can do it privately. Ask her by e-mail (if it's her personal e-mail address) if there are too many people around. This shouldn't be a problem as long as you're respectful in the e-mail. She's leaving in leaving in 5 or 6 weeks right? It comes down to how badly you want to ask her out. Are you too shy to ask her out? Or are you afraid of rejection? Link to comment
deff808 Posted June 15, 2011 Author Share Posted June 15, 2011 I do not have her private email. I'm not shy at all to ask her. Just afraid if she reject me, than i would have to deal with her until she leaves. Meaning, i would have to see her at work every day, very awkward. Link to comment
deff808 Posted June 18, 2011 Author Share Posted June 18, 2011 I work with her this past wed, she must of approach me 3-4 times, asking for help, how my days off was etc... I blew it! She is pretty shy and quiet. But i can tell, there is some interaction she is trying to do... Everyone at work is telling me to ask her. She is a manager, so i don't know if she is allowed to date employees. I think she works tonight, i don't know if i should do it by email or ending of the shift.... Link to comment
deff808 Posted June 21, 2011 Author Share Posted June 21, 2011 Just found out, she is working out things with her ex bf... I don't know if its to late or not to late. I found out the day, when i was gonna ask her after work... I backed off with my own respect. Because her ex bf, works with us as well, but in a different department. Link to comment
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