Vaginal Oversensitivity. PLEASE HELP!

[maggot 9]

Well, my girlfriend and I have been together a little while now and the party is starting to move downstairs. However, whenever I try to touch her she feels a pain. Not only is it when I try to enter the vagina, it is also when any kind of abnormal pressure is put onto the clitoris. We are both at a loss for why she is doing this, she is comfortable and wants to do it, but her body just won't allow her. Any kind of explanation or tips on how to prevent this would be greatly appreciated.

[mouseno4]

I would seriously get her to a GP. I have no idea what is the problem, but im pretty sure that isnt a good sign.

 

I tried to google it but came up with nothing solid. Sorry.

[TommyJr]

Hi we had the problem ours was related to the birthcontrol pill... is she's on it then maybe thats it... good luck

[tiredofvampires]

Not only is it when I try to enter the vagina, it is also when any kind of abnormal pressure is put onto the clitoris. We are both at a loss for why she is doing this, she is comfortable and wants to do it, but her body just won't allow her.

 

What do you mean "abnormal" pressure?

 

Are you her first partner? Is she a virgin?

 

If she's had other partners, did she experience this then? Do you know when this problem began for her?

 

Does it hurt for her to masturbate?

 

Does she feel pain with any other non-sexual touch -- like tight pants, tampons, etc., that rub the area?

[FathomFear]

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She should consult a doctor to evaluate the causes. Could be mental, physical, or both.

[Miss.Love2u]

Hey I saw this show call true Life and one of there shows fetured three couples who couldnt have normal sex I FORGOT WHAT THIS DISORDER WAS CALLED BUT IT WAS A REAL DISORDER. Anyway the three woman couldnt have sex because it was so painful they went to see a few doctors and tried some sexual tricks some worked others didnt. But it was so painful because the muscules in the vagina didnt know how to open up when it was time for sex and they couldnt make them relax so they enjoy there partner. But also it was not only sex but they couldnt use tampons,use there fingers anything and the more the girl was thinking about it the harder it was to have sex. go on line and try and look up that show and do a search on that. good luck

[tiredofvampires]

Miss.Love2u, the condition you're referring to with the muscle spasms that close up the vagina is called "vaginismus" (edit: FathomFear's link).

 

What I'm thinking the OP's girlfriend might have is a bit different because she has pain in the clitoris and when she's touched as well, which is not a muscular or penetration issue (but pain everywhere can cause vaginismus after a while because continued pain makes the muscles tense, secondarily.)

 

Maybe this is the disorder you saw on that show, Miss.Love. Or maybe not, because it's less well-known than vaginismus.

 

I asked those questions above because they are relevant to this condition:

 

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As another poster said, sometimes birth control can be to blame, but sometimes it's harder to know what the cause is.

 

A GP is not well-versed in these disorders. Only a gynecologist is, and even then many of them do not see a lot of these conditions in their practice. For this reason, some are better diagnosticians than others.

[maggot 9]

Thank you for all of the advice.

 

She is a virgin and does not take birth control. The abnormal pressure would be my touch, not tight pants or tampons (but she told me she rarely uses tampons). She told me she has never masterbated, so i guess she is kind of in the dark for all of this. I was researching before and I stumbled accross the vaginismus cause, but I figured it couldnt hurt to ask on here. We will research some more and hopfully find a solution to this problem. Thank you all