WHat it means, when...

[Gentle]

When GF saying, she does not wanting to built her whole life around me! Otherwise,If something happens to me or I die, she may not be able to live normal life and raise her kids.

Is this normal way of thinking, by knowing that I am a very stable person and she had and has my supports, from a-z when she was really in need.

Is this a classic example of Fear of Lossing deal for unavaillable women. I wish, I had small cabin remote by a lake, live my life without being effected by any social..... problems.

[He2Him]

It means she's unstable, weak and very dependable person. Which is generally speaking not good. You want to build your life around yourself. Not others. If you do, you're bound to crash and burn when they're gone.

[piruru]

It sounds like you were hurt that she said that. Like you feel she doesn't trust you enough to depend/rely on you or something. To have a life carved out together.

 

She's probably been hurt/abandoned before and doesn't want to be in the same vulnerable position again.

 

If you want her to depend more on you, prove/show her that you are someone worth depending on. That you will be there for her, time and time again. That you're not going anywhere.